First of Im a slightly fliud cis male, I try to be open minded, am pansexual while being romantically attracted to femininity. Im havnt ever been in a relationship with someone trans/non bionary ect. But do consider quite a few friends. When it comes to pronouns ect. I find my attraction ect. relating to my perspective from the vibes people put off more than their prefered pronouns and self image. This shoits my anxiety through the roof and I find myself affraid to converse for fear of offending them or worse. I consider myself very open minded and progressive compared to the environment Ive lived in my whole life (rural kansas) but am very active in poly/kink/lgbt communities on reddit, facebook, and a couple other sites and find myself feeling ignorant and self loathing over this issue. Any help or advice from a trans perspective?