At 9 years old I discovered that I liked girls and a year later that I ONLY liked girls, that I was a lesbian. At 13 years old I came out to my friends and parents. But recently I've been thinking about the fact that I may be asexual. It all started when I realized that people of my age gave much more importance and emotion to sex than I did. I don't feel ashamed about sex itself because I know it's something natural, but the thought of doing it myself makes me very uncomfortable and sometimes it makes me sick. I feel romantically attracted to women but I am not interested in having sex with them or even having intense kisses.

I'm afraid to identify as asexual now because I might change my mind and it's just a phase or something, I'm not informed on the subject. I don't want to sound homophobic with this, I just have questions and want advice.