Does anyone stuggle with being overly flirtatious?

Women are curious about me for whatever reason. Maybe because I'm open, friendly, flirty, whatever the case may be. Cool, got it...the token Bi Girl when we go out. They like the attention and I enjoy giving it. We dance, chill, have a good time with friends, all of that.

But as soon as I actually try to be friends, they make it weird. I can ask anything from "what shows have you been watching", "did you make it home safe", "what's a recent song on your playlist"... Then they get weird/distant. I feel like I can't be a genuine nice person just so I don't come off too flirtatious.

I wish I could just say to them "I'm like this with everyone, I'm not trying to F#$% you, necessarily!"