For starters, I'm 28, big bearded bear body type, and only recently (December) publicly came out as bisexual due to someone outing me on a Facebook group full of neo-Nazis.

I've been very specific in my dating profiles that I am a top, I am not into other masculine men, and I'm not interested in a sexual relationship with someone more than a couple of years older than me, and that I don't want NSFW pics right off the bat. I'm hoping to find a long-term relationship, and have also made that clear.

I'm mainly attracted to traditionally feminine features, I think the term I've heard used is "finsexual". Specifically, a woman or feminine guy in the 22-28 year old range, prefer a more average build than my own, and for men, shaved or at least not hirsute like myself.

The only responses I've gotten are from people that are looking for a quickie, people that read my profile and ignore everything I put in my bio. We're talking 60 year old dudes sliding into my DMs with pics of their ass, or dudes demanding that I suck their dick. Endless messages from guys that can't read.

It's getting really old, and I spoke about it to a local LGBT Facebook group, where I was hoping I could get some suggestions, and instead I got attacked in the comments for being "fatphobic" and discriminatory towards folks older than me.

What am I doing wrong.