Okay like it get it. We all have different coping mechanisms to deal with our insecurities. I posted a fitness pic in the trans fitness sub, it was nothing inappropriate AT ALL and this other woman stalked my PF and straight up came after me. I deleted my post because I was sick of arguing with her.

Just because some of us may embrace the awkwardness of our status in life doesn’t mean we aren’t human beings. And one person’s idea of “how we should behave” and then projecting that on others isn’t cool at all. Someone else suggested I create an alt account for normal things but I refuse. I’m a human being that likes books, podcasts and many other things as well.

I take flirty photos, nothing nude, as a coping mechanism to deal with my own insecurities and that’s my choice. I don’t sell anything. If you hate on other trans because they have a few NSFW photos just keep something in mind. Before we ever had a voice over in the public space, the adult industry gave us paying jobs and exposure to society. Was that a good thing? Idk, but they were one of the first to be “inclusive” even if it was motivated by profit.

If you don’t like what others are doing that’s fine. You’re free to feel however you want. But we get enough hate from everywhere else and hating on each other helps no one. Or AITA?