I am kinda in a pickle right now. I found a name I love to use, birth mothers choice, was adopted so name was changed. I really don’t know who I am. I feel asexual sometimes and then poly at others. I don’t agree with the binary genders and feel non binary but I dress really masculine and goth/1500 style. (Hopefully would get money to get more of those type of clothes) I can’t seem to land in a specific category or label. And I know that’s not the point of the labels, but I don’t know how to explain to someone that at times I’m hyper sexual and then asexual. And sometimes I wanna cross dress or have a masc outfit and have a painted face. So is there a way I can explain this to my boyfriend and close friends that is simple and Concise?