So as the title says, whenever I'm with my friend she's very specific on what she likes people doing. Say she takes something from my bag. I'll have to proper beg her to give it back before she does it. I take something in return as a joke. She then goes and says "I'll call you (deadname) if you don't give it back." Then I have to give it back cuz I'm not getting dysphoria today honey. Thing is, she does it all the time. Round her house? Her: "Get me a drink while you're down there." Me: "You can come yourself." Her: "(Deadname), get me a drink please." So I have to do it.

Other way around? Me: "Hey, can ya get me a drink while you're downstairs?" Her: "Get one yourself." Me: "Please?" Her: "Get it yourself." Then she walks off.

Edit because it adds more context to why I'm already trying not to snap: I have many mental issues, and when I told her I have autism and ADHD she started faking OCD, using an excuse that was "Everything has to be tidy in my room" and that being the only 'evidence' she had.

Edit2: I am refusing to leave her, so try to convince me all you want, I can't.

Edit3: Funny how it went from everyone being on my side to everyone saying I'm doing it to myself for choosing the safe route to not leave. I physically cannot leave her for numerous reasons.

Edit4: Alright. If it makes you guys (and probably me in the future) happy, I'm going to take small steps to either make her stop, or get rid of her if she doesn't. I'm finding ways and excuses to stay away from her at break and lunch, and I'll be more assertive and talk to her next time she uses my deadname. If she carries on, I'll just ignore her whenever she uses my deadname. If she continues still, that's when I'll take further action.