I'm nonbinary and I have been battling to stay feminine a lot (AFAB) because of the place I work people are not very accepting and I don't go out a lot. It's eating me alive though. I want to look more androgynous/ gender neutral , I gave myself a short haircut but all the pants I own end up tight on my legs because of my big thighs and I don't think I should bind because my chest is too big (DDD) plus being plus size I feel like it would look very wonky if I bind like this.

Any advice? I'll take anything that can make me look more androgynous and maybe masculine because it just feels so horrible recently and I don't know what to do. I usually don't care looking very feminine or tomboyish but now its just bothering me greatly and my chest and thighs make me dysphoric.