Hey there everyone - sorry for the bit of sad in the post title. It wasn’t a breakup or anything really, more of a family spat really, but it made me feel genuinely lonely for the first time in a long time. I haven’t been trying to date in a while because there’s always hobby projects to work on, books to read and games to play. I didn’t like feeling tethered to my phone, or having to drop what I was doing to answer immediately. That said, I feel like it’s a good time to throw my hat back into the ring and give it another try.

So here’s the big thing really - I’m not looking to jump into overly physical or sex/kink stuff right off the bat. I’d rather have a real connection to someone first - shared interests and the like. I’m also really hoping for something local or reasonable distance. I’m currently living in southern AZ, but I may move back out east sometime in the next 6-12 months who knows

So on that topic of shared interests - I love costume work and prop making! I attend a good amount of conventions throughout the year for cosplay - I enjoy a good video game, Rougelites, Rhythm Games, and RPGs are my usual favorites - I’ve been taking horse riding lessons recently and they’ve been fantastic! I’ve also occasionally been attending some dance classes and want to do more there. - Sci-Fi and fantasy novels are my genres of choice, I’m currently on the 11th volume of the Wheel of Time - I’m down for kink stuff, I can slide relatively easily into either role with the right prep - but this isn’t the place to talk about specifics

It’s probably important to note dealbreakers too

• Recreational drug use is a big dealbreaker. I can be drug tested at work and being around people using weed makes me nervous, even if you think there’s no real chance of secondhand effects
• A real penis is a dealbreaker. As much as I’m supportive of trans girls, I just do not want a penis in the bedroom.
• Polyamory is a deal breaker. It’s absolutely not for me.
• If you are unwilling to verify, that is a dealbreaker. I’m not setting myself up to get catfished. There’s an older cosplay photo on this profile somewhere, but I’m also willing to verify with something more recent
  

This post is probably long enough by now - I’ve got a busy work day today (thank the winter storms for that) so I probably won’t be able to answer anything right away. Hoping to hear from you!