Hey, hi, hello! I'm Abbi! I'm pretty awesome, but you don't have to take my word for it! Stay tuned for a testimonial from my best friend! A couple of disclaimers: I'm what some might call "fat"; not your type, that's cool, I totally get it. It's not forever, though; I'm actively taking steps to live a longer, healthier, more active life, and I am 100% willing to chat about what that means if we hit it off. Disclaimer #2, I am a trans woman, on HRT for ~4 years. With those out of the way, if you're still reading...allons-y!

Friend Testimonial:

"Crazy smart and funny; appreciates sarcasm. Really kind, will always be there to listen. Generous, loyal, a little shy at first. Is a romantic. Loves fiercely. Accepting of everyone. Cares deeply." - L, Best Friend

Thanks, best friend! Now, about me: Hufflepuff (with the requisite "F*** JKR" disclaimer), Aquarius, INFP-ish. Shy. Nerdy. Hopeless romantic. Cat mom. Dog mom. Music and film are life. Cooking and baking are love languages (as well as Physical Touch and Quality Time). Game nights FTW; Cards Against Humanity to Mario Kart, I'm down for whatever. Kaiju fangirl. Media junkie. Perpetual sucker for a good (or not so good) rom com. Bookworm. Amateur cook and baker. Videogames are chef's kiss; I'm primarily an Xbox girl, but I have a PS5 for the exclusives. Best damn cuddler you've never met (not a bad kisser, either, for what it's worth). Pro-choice, pro-vax, BLM, climate change is real, all of these positions are good positions.

About you: Open, honest, willing and able to communicate about their feelings. Preferably with some nerdy tastes/tendencies/hobbies? Monogamous; I fully support polyam relationships for those who they work for, they're just not for me. Distance doesn't necessarily matter. Be a little weird, be a little quirky, be whatever you are, just be unapologetically you.