The generic: Heyo! I’m looking to give and receive affection (physical and emotional). Social needs haven’t been fully addressed in a while, in all honesty. Historically, I’ve had the most success addressing this via friends with benefits types of relationships, although I am open to more. Figured I’d give Reddit r4r subs a shot

A little more personality: Life sits best for me when every day has a game and/or activities for the sole purpose of pure fun. That may be the adhd in me speaking… “chase the dopamine”… Would love to add some folks to my routine that multiply the laughter and only take things seriously when absolutely necessary. I play softball (slow pitch) pretty frequently. A person who wants to share the field with me or support my team from the bleachers would be enthusiastically welcomed! Love a good beach day complete with all the made up games we can think of. Definitely have a homebody side as well, so spending a weekend in cuddling over tea and cartoons/movies counts as a great way to spend time with someone

The body and brain I animate: I’m afab, identify as nonbinary, and stylistically present androgynously nearly full time. Features I hear the most commentary on are definitely my freckled face and fro, which my or may not have so much gravitational pull that it’s tried to adopt planets into its orbit. Average height and weight

Pre-covid I was spending a good bit of time in the kink scene. I like to mention so upfront since kink play is something that I enjoy having in my relationships with like minded individuals (details are open to discussion, but I’ll keep this post’s info broad). In the past, it has felt like I’ve been pegged by stereotype and that led to disappointment for all parties. Not fully sure if it was due to my androgynous presentation, but I’ve been assumed to be a dominant too many times to count. However, I am naturally submissive and love being so

I’m polyamorous. Actually, I thought I made up the concept when I was 12 lol. Was absolutely delighted when I realized in my early 20s that I wasn’t the only one

Open book to inquiries beyond what I’ve listed. Everyone is entitled to their preferences

The sign off: Really excited about the potential connections this post can bring. You may encounter a cross post or two. DMs are preferred. I’m fairly easy to chat with I’m told, so no worries about composing the “perfect” introduction

Cheers