Hello all!

My name is Violet Lynn McCabe (Vio-Lynn, if you like). I'm a trans woman on the east coast of America looking for love. I've been on HRT for about ten months and I am very much enjoying the changes, especially to my face and figure. Boobs :)This is what I look like:

https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/642454411393892382/938501496755064832/20220202_132923.jpg

About me:I have a passion for technology. I think of myself as a technical person and later this year I plan to go to college for computer engineering. I code, of course, in a few different languages, but for fun I really like to design computers - I love AI, too. I don't really try to specialize, though - anything technical fascinates me, be it clockwork, engines, infrastructure - I'd love to work on a project with you.

I also make art and music. I play a couple instruments, although sadly despite the pun in my name I have yet to pick up a violin and really learn it. I'm pretty good at the piano and I can play a song or two on the guitar, too. Most of my compositional work is digital. I have a soundcloud, if you'd like to listen! I also have some images saved of my artbook and some digital art I've made that I'm proud of. Sometimes I try to combine all of these skills and work on game projects, although I have yet to finish one.

I speak very basic Russian, German, and Greek (in addition to my first language, english). I have an 800 day streak on duolingo that gives me a solid vocabulary base, and I'm just starting to be able to read simple stories in those languages without having to translate much of the words. If you're a native speaker in those languages, I'd love to be friends if nothing else! It's really fun and useful to try and have a conversation with a native speaker, the tips are super useful.

I am a femme lesbian, looking for another femme. My aesthetic is probably old fashioned victorian garb, or elvish stuff (like lord of the rings) if that makes sense. Arwen from LOTR is gorgeous, I want to be her. If you're interested in sword lesbians, I own several! One real and a few wooden/plastic. I'm not super athletic but I am fit and I would LOVE to spar with you. Bonus points if you can win, though I won't make it easy for you ;) I am also a switch and not particularly picky in the bedroom, although I don't like being humiliated or degraded and I won't do anything involving waste. Cuddles MANDATORY.

Games are my favorite past-time. If you don't have a PC it's not going to work out between us, just because VC'ing over a game is how I really bond with people. I like teamwork, especially teamwork in overcoming a challenge. That said, I have a very broad taste - my favorite games are creative ones like minecraft, with my favorite being space engineers because I can build (and destroy) spaceships in it. I also like RTS a lot, and I won't say no to a good FPS like TF2 or Halo. I also have a special place in my heart for Zelda and Metroid - Zelda and Samus are some of my favorite female characters, period.

I don't watch much television, but I like Steven Universe, She Ra, Star Trek (TNG, Voyager) The Owl house, and the Castlevania show was really, really good. The lord of the rings movies are the best films ever made, I love them. I also don't read much, but I read the Harry Potter Series and the chronicles of Narnia as a kid, as well as the Eragon series and the Percy Jackson books.

About you:

I'm looking for someone STEM - science, technology, engineering, medicine - I'm not super picky, as long as it's interesting and you have a passion for it, I want to hear you rant about it. Seriously, don't ever stop talking about it. I love to learn and I know how great it is to ramble on about something to someone who's actually listening. I want to be that person for you. Tell me all about it.

I have insecurities about being wanted, so please be forward and outgoing. A lot of my friendships simply don't exist without me constantly putting effort in to talk to people so they don't forget about me. If I don't invite people to play things, we simply don't, for months at a time. I could really use someone that actively wants to spend time with me, and will ask me when I'm free and invite me to stuff. Sometimes I really just want someone to ask me what I'm up to and how my day's been. I don't mean to seem needy, and I don't need to talk to you every day, just that I don't want to be the one that starts conversation every time.

Drugs aside from very occaisional, non dangerous substances are a hard dealbreaker. I don't care if every one in a while you have a weed edible, or if you did LSD in high school, but I have never used drugs before in my life and I don't WANT them in my life. Tobacco use in any form is a hard dealbreaker, I deal with enough of that from family members. Vaping is a dealbreaker. Serious alcohol use is a dealbreaker - I like alcohol, but I drink it infrequently, often socially, and in smallish quantities.

I am looking for someone non religious and non superstitious. I am an atheist and don't have much patience for religion of any kind, especially since religion has been used for most of history as an excuse to oppress people like me. I also don't believe in ghosts or that being born under a certain sign has any consequence on one's character. I don't mean to sound self righteous or judgmental - I am those things, but that doesn't mean that you're wrong to believe what you want.

-If you took the time to read all that, thank you. I really appreciate your time. Finding love is hard - I've approached probably like 20 people on this sub and not gotten a response from most of them. I won't do that to you. If you take the time to send me a message, I promise I'll respond, and give you a chance to talk, at least. We might not be right for one another, and that's okay, but I will never ghost you. If you're looking for something to say, why not start by telling me about yourself, what you're interested in, and what you like to do for fun? Perhaps a picture of what you look like? I'm willing to dive into you and your interests if you'll do the same for me.

To all of you reading, I hope you have a good day, and a good life. You'll find someone for you, just keep looking and keep trying new things. Good luck <3