I'm 32, somewhere between being a woman and being non-binary. I present and dress very femme, but I definitely feel like I slide around on the gender spectrum. I'm just a couple inches shy of six feet tall, and definitely fall into the plus sized category. I'm tall, I'm thick, and I usually have a 'get the fuck out of my way' look on my face. But really I'm just a sweet, sarcastic nerd who wants to bring you a drink at the end of a long day and then put my head in your lap.

I'm most easily described as a work in progress, I guess. There's a lot I want to be better about, and I'd like to have someone along for the ride. I am seriously looking for a partner. Someone to share my time with, even if we have to start long distance for now. I want the long conversations, the jokes, the pictures sent back and forth. I'm a hopeless romantic who is a sucker for a love letter and the little moments in a relationship.

I've got a lovely cocktail of mental and physical illnesses, but I'm upfront about them. I like to read and cook and make things. I'm a resin artist and a writer. I play dnd every week and video games usually every night to wind down before bed. I have a large dice collection, and I make a mean Thai coconut soup. I don't watch a lot of TV, not for any 'tv is rotting our brains' reasons, I just have a short attention span for shows. Catch me binging old seasons of Bake Off on Netflix. I'm pretty kinky and very sex positive, and while having kink in the relationship isn't necessary, it would be nice. I'm submissive, so any dominant toppy types please reach out. I know you're out there somewhere! Pretty introverted for the most part, and a homebody. I think the pandemic actually made it worse, so I'm going to have to work to get out of my shell. Another thing to add to the progress list.

I'm down for a long distance thing, with the expectation that we'll meet up once we feel comfortable/it's safe to do so. I'm not fussed about your height, weight, or race. I am only looking for people around my age or older, though. Other than that, all I really care about is you being open minded and down to get to know each other. Tell me about your hobbies and what makes you smile. Tell me your favorite foods, so I can learn to make them.

If anything in this post interested you, I'd love it if you reached out! Ideally, we'll talk on reddit for a bit and then move somewhere easier to use. If you've reached out before, feel free to do so again.

Have a great day, and thanks for reading!