My name’s Dana, I’m a nerdy trans lesbian who just started transitioning less than a year ago (5mo HRT). I have ADHD tendencies and am also an HSP, and I use marijuana (though not nearly as much as I used to!) I like cute things, cuddling, insightful conversations, and lots of nerdy fandom things (and analyzing them) like superheroes and other fantasy/sci-fi, animated shows, DnD, video games, etc. I tend to be more of a stay-in-and-chill person than a go-out-and-do-things person, but I still like going outside sometimes 😅

I have a doctorate in music, and I’m a Virgo, an INFP, a vaguely spiritual agnostic, politically progressive, a dog person (though I don’t mind cats), a night owl, a creature of habit, and my top guilty pleasures are fast food and chocolate 😁 I like to be very open and communicative about things; I believe that’s key to a healthy relationship. My philosophy on love is that if you’re going to spend the rest of your life with someone, you want to make sure you really love being around that person, because you’ll likely end up spending more time with them than you will by yourself.

Finally, I just want to be up front about two things: 1) I don’t currently plan to have surgery, although that could potentially change, because 2) I’ve never had sex before (because I was so uncomfortable with myself before transitioning, and the only girl I’ve dated was super religious), so I don’t know whether I’ll feel dysphoric sexually. I think it’s safe to say that I’m more of a bottom/sub energetically, but I don’t know yet whether I’d like penetrative sex at all (giving or receiving), or if I probably just prefer other methods of pleasuring each other anyway 😉 Either way, I expect the biggest turn-on for me will be the emotional intimacy (I’m probably demi-sexual).

I know there’s only so much that can be conveyed in writing, and there’s no predicting chemistry (or lack thereof), but if I sound like I might be the kind of person you’re looking for, then no harm in getting to know each other 😊