me: small long-haired dark-skinned tamil femme with colourful skirts and rough hands. i work as a doctor at an underresourced hospital and spend my free time reading, writing and talking to the sun, the trees, the sea and candle-flames. my interests include palliative care/death work, pantheism/non-duality/tantra, jungian psychology, metaphysics, prehistory and leftist anticolonial thought; i also like fairytales, ghibli films, psychedelic music, going to art galleries, falling down rabbit-holes, and anything by ursula le guin. i come off as pretty space-y/carefree (thanks, adhd) and crack too many bad jokes, but i try to treat everyone around me with kindness and love. these days i'm more of a gentle domme, but the teeth do still come out when necessary - or if you ask nicely.

you, hopefully: butch/masc, kind and gentle, over the age of 24, (these three are non-negotiable). i like all kinds of butches - there's something about you that's irresistible to me - but i get bored if you're someone very bound by conventional butch/femme "gender roles", if you're a dry conversationalist, or if you're overly cynical in your worldview. random things i find attractive: shy earnest personalities (like blood in the water to me!); careers in academia, science or the arts, or conversely people who work with their hands or with plants and animals; quick-wittedness; silliness; complex relationships with religion/faith; a burning interest in the world around you, in any shape or form; fellow romantics who wear their hearts on their sleeves. please don't try to get me to "switch", thank you.

maybe we'll fall in love; maybe we'll exchange a few messages and then forget about each other; maybe we'll become the best of friends. go ahead and message me, and if you're scared or don't know what to say, tell me about the last interesting dream you had and i'll tell you what i think of it. :)