First, let me yap about myself!
I am a 5'5 / 165cm, blue eyed, dark haired, plus size, femme representing woman (cis for those curious). If you want to see what I look like, I have photos of myself on my profile ♥
Personality wise, I’m emotionally intelligent. I wear my emotions on my sleeve. I’m open & honest, and I strive to be communicative to both friends & more. Often described as the "mom" in the friend group. I have a lot of love to give, hence why I tend to show it in every way possible ♥
I struggle with depression & anxiety, both diagnosed. Currently medicated & working on myself daily. Always finding new ways to self soothe & take care of myself - mentally & physically. I am an overthinker as I tend to get easily anxious, so patience & reassurance is something I value highly from those I surround myself with.
Instead of yapping more then necessary, I've created a little bullet list!
♥ I love to read. My favorite genres being fantasy, thriller, romance, mystery, crime, paranormal, young adult, etc. As long as it's Sapphic - I'll read it!
♥ I'm big on video games, especially co-ops & multiplayers. I have a PS5, Nintendo Switch & PC. PC being my main.
♥ Video games I play right now are Marvel Rivals, Overwatch, Minecraft, Palia, Forever Skies, Cyberpunk 77, Avatar: Frontiers of Pandora, etc.
♥ Skincare enthusiast. Currently getting back into it & loving it.
♥ I'm an avid tv-show & movie watcher. Currently obsessed with Silo, Arcane & The Ark.
♥ I use Discord a lot for movie & game nights, so if hangouts like that is something you enjoy its a BIG plus! Also a great icebreaker imo.
♥ Sci-Fi & Astronomy is my kryptonite.
♥ While I'm a homebody, I absolutely love the idea of having an excuse to dress up or go for a walk!
♥ 100% housewife material. I love to cook & bake. Like to keep a clean house.
♥ I have an adorable 7 year-old kitty named Lumi.
♥ Shy introvert who opens up quickly when comfortable.
♥ Kinky. Leaning more towards bratty Sub, but will Dom for the right one. I just can't do vanilla.
♥ A heavy texter, but I am also a sucker for FaceTime. I love being able to hang out with someone while in comfortable silence.
♥ My sun is Cancer, Moon is Gemini, Rising is Leo.
♥ I DO NOT WANT KIDS. I'd rather have a bunch of fur babies and just live happily ever after.
While I've mentioned a lot of romantic settings, I am a firm believer in that the best relationships start off as friendships first. I'd like to take my time to get to know you as a person. Learn about your positives & negatives.
What do I look for in a partner?
Someone who shares some familiar interest with me. Someone who loves meaningful talks, whether it be over the phone or through texts. Someone who enjoys movie and/or game nights - in real life and over discord! I'm just looking for someone I know I'll connect with.
Another thing that is really important for me, is someone who isn't too scared to share a piece of themselves. I really love to send selfies, photos of things I've cooked / baked. I love sending voice notes. I love to facetime. And this is something I really want to be reciprocated. Once both parts are comfortable & have reached that level of security. These are parts I find extremely important in a LDR. Which I am open to.
I find it extremely attractive when a potential partner is someone who takes care of themselves physically & mentally. And no, this is not me saying you have to be fit AF and not struggling mentally. I honestly couldn't give a shit about that lol. I'm just looking for someone that nurtures their soul, body & mind ♥
Now what do you do?
If my yapper self hasn't scared you away yet, send me a DM! I am open to both platonic & romantic relationships from all over the world.
All I ask is that you open up with a little bit about yourself. Please be over the age of 25. I will not respond to messages that tells me very little about who you are. First impressions are important after all!
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