I find myself in the new year standing at the beginning of everything. I'm coming out of a relationship unexpectedly returning me back home, job hunting in an undecided new direction - I'm starting over again and seeking someone who is okay with that. Of course, that means my life isn't the most stable at the moment, but it will get there. I will still be consistent with messaging and want you to be, too.

I'm constantly trying to learn more about myself and in the past few years, I've learned a lot about what I'm looking for in a long-term relationship: Honesty, monogamy, open communication, someone who shares some of my interests, someone who wants to make lasting memories together and enjoy each other's company for the rest of our lives. I want us to try new things together and not just stagnate on our couch all the time.

I'm a homebody who can't cook very much (but I love to bake) and I struggle with depression and contamination OCD. I like to play video games, prefer horror novels and scary movies over other genres, I like to watch YouTube analysis and book reviews, going for car rides (I don't currently drive, but I'm working on it), and I like deep and thoughtful conversations. One of my favorite things to do is listen to people talk about their interests, so share with me what you're passionate about.

Dealbreakers for me: smoking, drugs, frequent drinking, I am child free and don't want children, someone who is constantly on their phone. If you lack empathy and patience. I don't currently have pets, but intend to someday again.

Message me if we sound like a match and let's get to know each other! Please don't interact if you are going to hardly message at all. I want to talk with someone who actually wants us to get to know each other and not just say a few things back and forth every several days. I've been married and I know that I can be a loving and supportive wife, but I want to feel that love back, too.