Hi! I’m really exhausted by dating apps so I’m hoping someone here will find me intriguing enough to message. I spend most of my time reading and writing, playing a few video games. I’m a horror fan and I’d love someone to talk about it with, but I also like other things as well. I’m tired and anxious a lot, but I’m a very consistent texter and we can call/facetime. I’m very caring and thoughtful and loyal to a fault. I’m also neurodivergent, submissive and kinky, so feel free to ask me about any of that.

Full disclosure, I’ve had some traumatic/unhealthy/damaging relationships/dynamics in the past, which causes me to be quite wary in the beginning. I get shy and nervous easily and downright scared by punishments - I want something healthier than what I’ve had and I want to unlearn that fear, but that involves having someone to teach me.

I’d really like to find someone consistent and caring and trustworthy, who’s there when I need them and who allows me to do the same. Humor is a plus but I’d like to have serious conversations too. If you’re dominant and/or have mommy/daddy energy (I have a little bit of a toned-down non-sexual little space which we can talk about) you get major points with me. (I think I’m somewhere in between masc and fem - I mostly wear t-shirts or sweatshirts or sweaters and jeans and I don’t wear makeup, but I wear necklaces and I’m growing out my hair and I put it up more days than not.) I’d love someone who texts regularly and communicates effectively - I understand we have lives but I hate when I’m “seeing someone” who doesn’t talk to me for days. For the same reason I’d prefer an exclusive relationship, whether that be a dynamic or as partners. I want to feel safe with you and like I can relax and be myself with you.

If you’re at all interested or would like to talk and see where things go, please message me - I’d love to get to know you. 😊 I hope to hear from you soon! 🩵