Hi there, it's my first time making a post like this so bear with me.
As mentioned in the title, I'm a 25 year old lesbian and I live in a small town in western europe, not too far from the city but still the kind of place where the general consensus is that bullfighting is the peak of manliness and that some trump-like politician archetype who "tells it like it is" is what the country needs the most. Long story short, I don't have many people to relate to around here, nor do I have dating prospects.
And that's where you come in! (if you want)
I'm looking for a woman whose company I enjoy, plain and simple. I don't like interacting with people with romantic expectations in mind, I think that sort of meaningful attraction is something that should be built up as we get to know eachother, so going in with pre-conceived notions can often just lead to disappointment. In that sense, communication is very important for me. I'll try to be as clear as I can be about my intentions and I'd like for you to do the same as we get to know eachother.
Now let's get into some things about me that you might consider dealbreakers:
- I live with my parents still, and I'm not out to them;
- I'm currently working a part-time job while also looking for work in other cities;
- I don't plan to have children myself, but I would possibly be open to adoption once my employment situation was stable and comfortable (and if I met the right woman ofc);
- I was raised catholic, and my thoughts on religion are complicated;
- I'm only willing to date women close to my age (22-30 at most);
- I'm strictly monogamous;
- I smoke occasionally, usually when I go out drinking;
- I'm not willing to move outside of Europe.
If you're still reading after that, let's move on to more lighthearted territory.
Style-wise I guess I'm a futch? tomboy? something of the sort. I own a great collection of hoodies but I'm willing to part with some of them if we find out they look better on you. Physically I'm a bit on the shorter side at 160cms (around 5'3 for the feet users) so if that's a dealbreaker for you please tell me in advance so I have time to practice walking on stilts before we meet irl. I also don't mind swapping photos or video calling, but I'll expect you to prove that you are who you claim to be as well, since I've been burned before.
When it comes to hobbies, I'm a bit of a homebody... although I largely blame the lack of options in my town. I like movies, particularly horror and the kind of art films that don't get theatrical releases in the cinemas near me (still haven't watched the substance because of this ;-;). I'm not exactly a hardcore PC gamer, but I do play in my free time too. I'm mostly into single player rpgs and roguelikes, but I also like fast-paced action sometimes.
When it comes to books, I almost exclusively read nonfiction. But I swear it's the fun kind of nonfiction, usually around philosophy or anthropology or sociology or other such -ologies, if you've got book recs on obscure topics I'll probably love them. I'm also really into music, from alt rock/metal to art pop to ska punk, just ask me and I'll send you enough playlists to make you regret ever having spoken to me in the first place.
I have an interest in combat sports too, though unfortunately right now I'm taking a break from high impact workouts in general due to injury. I've been getting better though and I'm slowly trying to regain my strength through light exercises, so if you're interested in fitness we can both hype eachother up!
And that's probably enough info-dumping for now. If any of this peaks your interest and you'd like to know more about me, you're more than welcome to shoot me a message, I'll be waiting. ;)
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