Hi! I’m 31 non-binary afab and go by she/they pronouns. Even though I’ve been out for 6 years, I’ve only had sexual relationships with two women for a brief period of time and they were mostly unfulfilling. My first time with a woman was with a Stone Butch which was lovely at times, but didn’t always align with how I wanted to have sex. The second experience it was more reciprocal, but that relationship didn’t last long at all. I’m open to dating, but realized I’m demiromantic which is just annoying at the moment while I figure that out.

I have a hard time with dating apps because women intimidate me (please, y’all are perfect) and because it just isn’t the way I connect with people the most. Ironic since I’m here lol but would welcome any thoughts too.

I recently realized I want to top and would love to worship a woman’s body. I want to give pleasure and engage all senses. I want to have fun! Even though the natural instinct is there, I’m not an experienced lesbian lover and would love someone who is patient and communicative.

Anyways, anyone interested in talking or giving me some tips? 😊 much appreciated!