Hello, pleased to meet you!
I'm a 31F Black femme introvert who loves TTRPGs, writing, video games, being a gym girlie, and travel. I'm a proud New Yorker and currently flit in and out of the city, working on financial goals with the aim of settling there permanently in the next year or two. I've got a PhD, a good job, and am ramping up my career. I'm also monogamous and childfree - preferably petfree as well, but there's wiggle room!
I am looking for my forever person: someone NY-based and over thirty who is comfortable with temporary long distance. My ideal partner is emotionally intelligent, self-aware, and steadily employed with good financial literacy. I've done many years of work on my mental health journey, and I'd like to meet someone who’s also committed to personal growth. I'm looking for an effusive, romantic soul with golden retriever energy who is as excited about our connection as I am.
I'm woefully in love with mascs and butches, especially gallant knight types (bonus points for owning a sword). I seek out more dominant energies and adore butch/femme dynamics, though this does not mean I have any desire to be a useless partner or to not spoil you in return. I also love nerds: if you're always logged into Discord, have thousands of hours in a single game, and know the details of fandom drama older than Google, then you're my kind of person.
Feel free to DM if any of this speaks to you! My next trip to the city is in December, so I'd love to go on a date?
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