hello~ I’m a 23 y/o submissive lesbian located in LA who is hoping to find a very dominant girlfriend to belong to and to love. (wanting smth that could ideally develop into a serious, in person, monogamous relationship) My age preference is 23-34 I would love to find a girlfriend who is dominant both in a psychological and physical sense (both inside and outside of intimacy). I find it very attractive when a woman is possessive and good at making decisions (I struggle with decision paralysis) And although I like a gf to be super dominant and for there to be a d/s power dynamic in the relationship where I like belong to her; I also want to know we care for eachother, build trust and emotional intimacy, ideally building a life together if things work out well.

Additionally, with intimacy I like being overpowered, dominated, treated a bit rough, and being on the receiving end of CNC/freeuse, bites, light choking, and being restrained, among other things. I would like for you to be the one in control and do whatever you want with me kind of vibe. (I of course want to pleasure you too if you want that, but would prefer you to still be in control and dominant about it).

A bit about me: •I’m 5’2, feminine, living in LA, and a major homebody •I love to crochet, read (fantasy), and game •I love the shows Avatar the Last Airbender (original) and The Magicians •When I really like someone I pour a lot of my energy, focus, and emotions into them. •neurodivergent •I have a little cat who means the world to me. So needless to say; must like cats!!

(And on the topic of pets… while I don’t mind briefly interacting with dogs, unfortunately I am not a dog person and don’t want to ever have a dog, so if you have a dog that’s a dealbreaker for me :( )

Lastly, I would say the only major preference I have with style/appearance is that I’m not attracted to specifically the super short hairstyles that are common for men to have, because although I know there’s a good amount of women who do that style, it unfortunately reminds me of men too much and is not for me. Other than that I don’t mind whether a woman is masc or fem or whatever else in terms of style and personality and like and am open to any!!

Feel free to reach out to me if you’re interested with your age, general area (pls be in or near LA) and a bit about you. I’d like to get to know each other a bit as well as talk about eachother preferences and boundaries. I can be a bit awkward at first and struggle to initiate stuff, so if you don’t mind leading the convo at first, I would appreciate it. (and please verify that you are a woman, I have absolutely zero interest in talking to men; I am a lesbian!!! NO MEN PLS.)