Hi All!

On the realest of reals, I just want to meet a woman who I can establish some sort of connection with. Dating is just a mess. People are either disingenuous or parasocial leeches or combination of the two. So here I am, casting my net far and wide on the internet in search for my person. I've posted in this subreddit before and I've gotten several responses but none of those interactions stuck. I have given thought as to why those conversations did not go any further than a Reddit chat and I've decided that I don't want that this go around. In order to combat that, I'm posting differently that I have in the past. I'm hoping that'll weed out those that aren't seeking what I'm seeking or those who I won't mesh well with, you know.

I'm Q. I'm 33. I am Black. Y'all will say I'm masc but I like to call myself a stud. Gemini lady here. I currently live in the state of Georgia. I have a cat. No kids. I have hobbies and my interests are many. I am self sufficient. I am educated and I thoroughly enjoy learning. I value (and provide) effort, loyalty, understanding, spontaneity, and compassion amongst other traits. Hmm....I think that covers the general basics.

The not so basics....I'm a jack of all trades but a master of none. I like it that way though. My interests are diverse and I keep busy with them. I like top 40 music. I'm simple. Yes, I do like other outside mainstream artists but chances are I will have not heard of that cool artist you are listening to. Maybe put me on? I have no care for anything horror or anime related. Sue me lol. I don't use TikTok or IG or basically any social media like that. Exception is Youtube; I'm always on Youtube. Long form videos for the win. So if you send me links...sorry boo, I don't have the app. I will build my entire day/schedule around sporting events especially women's sports. Geography, scrapbooking, primitive survival and video editing are a couple of my newest interests. I read a minimum of 30 minutes a day. If you catch me while I'm reading, it's a 99% chance I'm reading a memoir of some sort. I sleep with the fan on year around. I think Hulu is the superior streaming app. Board and card games are my jam. You cannot beat me in Skip-Bo even if you cheated. 🤷🏾‍♀️ My wardrobe consists of long sleeves and dark colors. I'm not sure how it got that way but I'm not buying anymore clothes so I'll be wearing them until the thread falls out lol. I love laughing loud. I love going on road trips and I consider myself to be a mini nomad. I love chips. I am THEE chip connoisseur. Lemon flavored/scented anything is my favorite and if you walk into my house, it will smell like lemons. I have an interest in cannabis and it goes deeper than just smoking it. I was the kid growing up that ate all my veggies and my friend's veggies, too. I'm team Android, but I do have an iPad.

So yeah, that's me in a nutshell. I'm open to talking to ciswomen of any ethnicity. I will not reply to conversatives, men, poly women, and racists. My Blackness is an important part of me and if you cannot respect me or that, then don't waste your time. Simply put, you respect me and I respect you.

If you've made it through all these words and I've somehow caught you interest, please feel free to message me. Chat is preferred but messages are okay. Need an icebreaker? Which 3 apps can you not live without? or Who do you think is the best television character created?