I did something really cool today. I met up with a bunch of random strangers, for a one day only pop-up choir. On the surface, it was just a room full of choir nerds learning a simple tune and singing together. But then, in the quiet, middle of it all there was a moment where it became about so much more than just the music. There was connection, to the song - sure, but also to each other, and to our communities, and to ourselves. And it got me thinking...

I'm so over it! I have done the short term, no strings attached, "see where it goes", etc etc and I am just so over it. I am almost 33 years old. I have 2 queer-platonic nesting partners I am raising kids with. I'm too old for this shit. I want a whirlwind romance. I want to sweep you off your feet. I am looking for someone who craves adventure, deep conversations, and intimate connection.

I am that person that has been told over and over again that I am "too much", that I love too deeply, and my emotions are too big. I don't believe there is such a thing, personally, as too much. I want to be your safe place to land when the world feels overwhelming, or underwhelming... or even in the impossibly beautiful moments, because I know what it is like when it all feels so BIG.

Outside of that heavy stuff, I swear I can be lighthearted and fun sometimes. I am a huge TTRPG nerd, I love trashy TV, and I am quickly becoming an expert in "brain rot" lingo. I identify as queer, non-binary, and maybe agender - idk I'm playing with it - and my pronouns are they/them. I am most attracted to other queer and gender diverse individuals, although cisgender folks are certainly welcome! I am in Arizona (Phoenix), but I travel to Seattle, LA, and Las Vegas a couple times a year each, and planes trains and cars are a thing - so I don't believe in limiting myself.

Tell me about the best first date you ever went on, and what made it so magical, or about the most magical night of your life so far. And then, let's maybe make a little magic ourselves.