I used to know who I am, but I've learned that I am abundant, and for every facet there's another edge. I've spent so much time introspecting that I have seen every crack and crevice, and I have come to realize that I am an amalgamation of contradiction. Yes, I realize that knowing yourself too much to the point of not knowing who you are is also a contradiction.

Looking for someone else who contains multitudes. Who lives life intentionally. I don't care about status, money, pop culture, trends, or prestige. I value communication, curiosity, honesty, empathy and passion.

I describe myself as a femme gremlin - femme in the dyke sense, not in traditional femininity. I'm agender, and get along well w other lesbians who are gender-weird. I have a deep and abiding love for old fashioned butches. I'm very gay, I don't expect you to be the man in the relationship. I'm not into emulating a straight romance.

I am someone who has big feelings, and want someone who is the same. If you've never cried at a museum, got lost looking at the stars, or felt humbled by the beauty and expanse of time, I can't relate. I can have fun doing almost anything - hanging out with my stepdad on the pier while he fishes, going shopping for DIY projects with my sister, sketching in nature, cooking homemade food, downloading a new video game. What's important to me is a curiosity and appreciation for the world.

I'm in Virginia, USA, but am open to any possibility. I spend time drawing, hanging out with my family, going to the thrift store, spending time in nature, reading, playing with my dogs, making things with my hands.

Cheers!