First, let me yap about myself!
I am a 5'5 / 165cm, blue eyed, dark haired, plus size, femme representing woman (cis for those curious). If you want to see what I look like, I have photos of myself on my profile ā„
Personality wise, Iām emotionally intelligent. I wear my emotions on my sleeve. Iām open & honest, and I strive to be communicative to both friends & more. Often described as the "mom" in the friend group. I have a lot of love to give, hence why I tend to show it in every way possible ā„
I struggle with depression & anxiety, both diagnosed. Currently medicated & working on myself daily. Always finding new ways to self soothe & take care of myself - mentally & physically. I am an overthinker as I tend to get easily anxious, so patience & reassurance is something I value highly from those I surround myself with.
Instead of yapping more then necessary, I've created a little bullet list!
ā„ I love to read. My favorite genres being fantasy, thriller, romance, mystery, crime, paranormal, young adult, etc. As long as it's Sapphic - I'll read it!
ā„ I'm big on video games, especially co-ops & multiplayers. I have a PS5, Nintendo Switch & PC. PC being my main.
ā„ I'm an avid tv-show & movie watcher. Currently obsessed with From, Snowpiercer & 9-1-1.
ā„ I use Discord a lot for movie & game nights, so if hangouts like that is something you enjoy its a BIG plus! Also a great icebreaker imo.
ā„ Sci-Fi & Astronomy is my kryptonite.
ā„ While I'm a homebody, I absolutely love the idea of having an excuse to dress up or go for a walk!
ā„ 100% housewife material. I love to cook & bake. Like to keep a clean house.
ā„ I have an adorable 7 year-old kitty named Lumi.
ā„ Shy at first, but tend to open up very quickly around people I'm comfortable with. Definitely an introvert.
ā„ Kinky. Leaning more towards bratty Sub, but will Dom for the right one. I just can't do vanilla.
ā„ A heavy texter, but I am also a sucker for FaceTime. I love being able to hang out with someone while in comfortable silence.
ā„ My sun is Cancer, Moon is Gemini, Rising is Leo.
ā„ I collect crystals.
ā„ I DO NOT WANT KIDS. I'd rather have a bunch of fur babies and just live happily ever after.
While I've mentioned a lot of romantic settings, I am a firm believer in that the best relationships start off as friendships first. I'd like to take my time to get to know you as a person. Learn about your positives & negatives.
What do I look for in a partner?
Someone who shares some familiar interest with me. Someone who loves meaningful talks, whether it be over the phone or through texts. Someone who enjoys movie and/or game nights - in real life and over discord! I'm just looking for someone I know I'll connect with.
Another thing that is really important for me, is someone who isn't too scared to share a piece of themselves. I really love to send selfies, photos of things I've cooked / baked. I love sending voice notes. I love to facetime. And this is something I really want to be reciprocated. Once both parts are comfortable & have reached that level of security. These are parts I find extremely important in a LDR. Which I am open to.
I find it extremely attractive when a potential partner is someone who takes care of themselves physically & mentally. And no, this is not me saying you have to be fit AF and not struggling mentally. I honestly couldn't give a shit about that lol. I'm just looking for someone that nurtures their soul, body & mind ā„
Now what do you do?
If my yapper self hasn't scared you away yet, send me a DM! I am open to both platonic & romantic messages from all over the world. Especially since I have a sleep schedule that is all over the place lol.
All I ask is that you open up with a little bit about yourself. Please be over the age of 24. I will not respond to messages that just says hello.
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