Hi there! I’m a chapstick lesbian looking to connect with amazing femmes. I’ve had a mix of experiences on dating apps—some good chats, some ghosting—but I’m ready to give this another shot. If I don’t respond, please don’t take it personally!

A bit about me: I work a lot so just be warned I often am working and am sometimes just really drained because of the nature of my work. I’m a writer who loves music, movies, books, and history. I’m spiritual with an interest in tarot and past lives, and I’m always eager to learn. I live alone with my adorable guinea pigs and dream of having a dog someday. I’m currently working on my fitness after some burnout for about the last decade, and while I have my quirks (like not being into nerdy stuff), I’m an INFP Taurus. I have anxiety, depression, and ADHD as well as a trauma disorder so I do speak to a therapist often.

I’m open to long-distance relationships but would love to know you’re willing to meet me halfway or make an effort to visit me at some point (to be fair it’s usually me doing this for girls.) I’m looking for a serious connection, but I’m happy to start slow. I prefer dating women around 23 - 48, and I value communication—frequent long silences can be tough for me. I’m okay with making friends too, although I pretty much live online so I’m focusing more on IRL friendships at the moment.

If you’re monogamous and seeking something genuine (and aren’t already in a relationship), I’d love to hear from you!