Hiiii everyone. I am a 34 y/o desi masc/butch looking for someone to build a life with. Not into casual dating so would appreciate someone who is also looking for someone to build a life with.

My South Asian roots are very important to me, so I’m strictly looking for someone who’s also South Asian (India/Pakistan/Bangladesh). I want to be able to sing trashy Bollywood songs with you, rewatch Kabhi Khushi Kabhi Gham a hundredth time, celebrate Holi, cook desi food at home blah blah you get the deal. Bonus points if you hate the English as much as I do for partitioning India.

I am also a big romantic and believe in soulmates, so if that’s something you can’t put up with, we probably won’t last.

Some more about me:

• a documentary filmmaker (in making)
• grew up in Karachi, Pakistan, spent last 7 years in Toronto, Canada, and now in NYC hoping the US will be my permanent stop
• Sagittarius rising, Virgo sun & moon
• 5 ft short only 😭
• lost 40 lbs this year and still have some to lose (so if extra lbs are a problem for you, we aren’t a great fit)
• enjoy traveling, cooking, prepping for my first 10K, cycling, reading
• spiritual. not religious but appreciate the good things in ALL religions, and love to call out the questionable stuff in all religions.
• pro Palestine

I am looking for someone who is: - South Asian (and ideally can speak Hindi/Urdu) and is pro Palestine - femme or stemme; age 30-37 - MONOGAMOUS - based in NYC (New Jersey won’t work I am afraid) - can laugh, is over their ex, is curious and can hold a conversation (one phrase texts are a big turn off for me) - loves traveling and wants to see the entire world together - NOT an atheist

Are you on this sub, my soulmate?