Alright, let's do this one more time. Hi, my name Mia and for the past 27 years, I've been the one and only...well, me, I guess. Haven't been masquerading around the DMV area as a spider themed superhero cause of US restricted airspace or whatever. So, a mild mannered nerd I will continue to be. Totally ok if you don't know the rest so let me fill you in.

Hope you don't mind a bit of a longer post, tried to make it as interesting as possible

I'm here in the hopes of finding a long term partner/best friend to carelessly grow up and grow old with in a monogamous romantic relationship. Figure I try here a couple times before selling my soul to the devil that is dating apps at the moment.

Not so much looking for friends at the moment either, as a heads up.

First things first, I'm a trans woman, been on HRT for 5 years, recently switched to injections in the last 2 years. Queer flavored sexuality, meaning I'm attracted to someone regardless of gender identity but do lean heavily towards WLW.

In terms of appearance, I'm black, lighter skin, with about 200 pounds to my 6’2 frame. Black hair, brown eyes, a pretty smile that will brighten your day and an ass of a Goddess lol. Body type is average/pudgy. HRT has been doing it's job of redistributing fat to the right places and the euphoria is great. Not really femme or butch, just me(a) or just androgynous in appearance with some femme moments here and there. Been growing my hair out in twists and my voice is a bit deeper.

I'm pretty comfortable/confident with my appearance for the most part.

One important aspect you should know up front is that I'm AuDHD (formal diagnosis of ADHD and highly suspect autism). I'm no stranger to depression and anxiety but it's the most under control it's been in my life. I also deal with a chronic illness that is thankfully in remission with the trade off of being immunocompromised.

I'm very conscious about my health and still wear a mask in public.

I am very much your typical introvert, shy and quiet as well as a bit of a homebody. I certainly don't mind going out on an adventure somewhere whether that be to a nice restaurant, arcade or amusement park. (I'm a bit of an adrenaline junkie with rollercoasters lol) Also pretty patient and chill, very rarely, if ever, raise my voice without a good reason and generally just go with whatever flow is given to me.

I prefer to to approach most problems from all different angles before passing any sort of judgement. Even then, I allow myself and others space to grow off of that initial judgement.

Having dealt with ADHD and autism my whole life, you don't have to be "perfect" or even get everything right the first, second or tenth time. Just do the best you can do in any given situation. At the end of the day, I really admire the effort you put in and the lengths you've come!

Pursued Women and Gender Studies in college, realised me and college dont work out as well as I thought and dropped out a little later than I should've. Maybe I'll go back for my degree one day. Instead, I've taken up the family tradition(?) of working in education (every immediate family member is an educator or studying to be one) as a special ed 1 on 1 assistant for a wonderful student. I genuinely love my job and it is very fulfilling although quite tiring. We just started our school year a couple weeks and I'm still developing a routine.

Been learning to drive and hopefully obtain a driver's license by the end of the year

Video games are a huge interest of mine. My main devices are Ps5 and PC, for the most part alI rotate through a plethora of titles but always come back to Sonic games, Elden Ring (and the rest of the Souls series, especially Bloodborne), Cyberpunk 2077, Fallout series (mainly 1, 2 and New Vegas) and the Resident Evil series.

Music is another huge interest of mine with my favorite genre being pop punk along with emo, post-hardcore, metalcore and pop rock. I have been listening to a lot of Neck Deep, The Story So Far, All Time Low, Bring Me The Horizon, With Confidence and Movements, as of late.

Be warned, I WILL absolutely send you songs that would remind me of you at any given moment and/or will make an entire playlist of songs that do the same, if given the chance.

I'm also a bit musically inclined and can play some guitar and bass. Pretty much enough to noodle my way through at least one or two songs per artist I listen to. I also dabbled in piano for a bit and played trumpet throughout grade school.

Love me some fan horror and creepy things. I won't hesitate to click on a random video on a macabre topic. The entire Saw series is an unashamed pleasure of mine. Also enjoy a good slasher along the lines of Scream or Child's Play. Or even bizarre ones like Possum and Lamb. I just love special effects and learning how they do everything.

Animation, especially cartoons and a few animes, is another interest of mine. Always wanted to make my own cartoon but never went down that path. Gravity Falls, Amphibia, Ed Edd n Eddy, Smiling Friends and SpongeBob are few of my faves. Cyberpunk Edgerunners is also up there. Treasure Planet and the Spiderverse series are my favorite animated movies!

Other smaller interests include art, mostly little cartoonish doodles to pass the time nowadays, although I do make a lot of arts and crafts projects for the class I work with! I also write fanfiction and have a handful of works up on Ao3. I actually just finally posted something after a nearly 2 year hiatus recently

I'm a pretty open minded person for the most part, willing to try out most things once and then again if I enjoy it. I love learning in general and am always looking for more things to learn. Although, I can be shy at first, once I'm comfortable, I can be pretty goofy and can be your endearing dumbass but very much lovable GF.

In terms of lifestyle, I don't smoke and very rarely drink, if ever. If that's your thing and you have it under control, who am I to stop you from doing so. I still wear a mask in public to protect myself as well as the child I work with. Liberal/left leaning. I guess I'm also pretty decent with kids as well seeing as though I've survived working with them for the past 3 years.

I do think I would like to be a mother one day as well, whether that be biologically or adopting so, completely childfree I am not. But I also understand I just may not be able to/would always focus on myself and other first instead of a hypothetical child. I do love animals and am partial towards cats and reptiles. I do live with two cats for the time being!

Very kink friendly, for sure and I lean very much towards being a bottom/sub. Lowkey love me someone who is assertive and/or takes charge. Show me the ropes, tie up my heart lol, I certainly don't mind prioritizing a partner and putting their desires first, to a healthy degree

As for what I'm looking for in a partner: - Between the ages of 24 - 34, bonus points if neurodivergent or a POC but certainly not required - Either in the DC, MD, Nothern VA area or looking to close the distance to this area within the near future (big ask, I know and totally understandable if you cant) - Able to balance all the different aspects of life along with a relationship with a bit of healthy prioritization here and there - Open minded, curious, trans friendly

And what do you get in return? Well, lemme tell ya, you'll get someone who: - Is a very good listener and (apparently) a decent giver of advice, you can talk my ear off about any and everything and will probably come to love your voice - Will always notice the effort you put into anything, no matter how small it may seem - Has come a long way and actively works on her communication skills - Again, will send you a song, or anything that reminds me of you. As well as really dumb videos, memes or posts in the hopes of making you smile
- Quotes SpongeBob, DBZ Abridged or FlorkOfCows fairly often - As curious as cat but also acts like a golden retriever once you get to know her

If you've read my ramblings this far, thank you so much for giving me a bit of your time and if anything I've said resonates/seems interesting to you, even if it's just one thing, don't be afraid to reach out in comments or send me a DM. I usually use Discord as my main form of communication nowadays, whether that be VC or texting

Can't wait to get to know you and I hope to talk to you soon!