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23f introvert - Looking for a long-term relationship or buddies in NYM area
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MadameCrackpot is age 23
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I have to clear the room. Contrary to my username, I am not into crack lol. It's just my weird sense of humor. I have asthma, so I typically try to avoid anything that affects my lungs whether that be smoking, alcohol (can drink some, but rarely), or dirty areas filled with dust. And unfortunately, furry animals aren't going to my best friend. Due to my condition, I like keeping my space clean and I am very active at the gym.

I'm a romantic at heart and my form of relaxation at home is reading sapphic stories, fanfics, or listening to sapphic audiobooks. I also like playing rpgs such as Skyrim, Fallout 3 & 4, Witcher 3, and Dragon Age Origins. Baldur's Gate 3 is in the backlog, and I'm looking to complete it but also wouldn't mind having someone to play it with me co-op. I'm also into reading manga and watching anime, but can understand why that isn't everyone's cup of tea.

For shows, I've watched Parks and Recreation, dabbled in Brooklyn Nine Nine, and aiming to watch It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia. I also like shows like Criminal Minds, but I got paranoid afterwards that I had to stop. So if there is someone that would binge watch that with me, that would be awesome.

Even though I'm a homebody, I like going to new places and window shop. I also love going out to eat food, although I've stopped to save money until I start working full-time next year in the NYM area. One of my good qualities according to my best friend is that I'm a good listener. I love listening to people gush about what they love and are passionate about, and ask decent questions. And I don't mind if you delve into what you think are boring or weird topics. Heck, in high school, I did a whole presentation in Humanities about the beauty of mechanical pencils.

If you are shy or like the quiet then that is okay too! I could initiate for the both of us until you feel more open to talking. I don't mind us doing different things while we're on a call or texting each other. I also have periods where I just want to be by myself where I don't talk.

Btw, I believe communication is very important. Both you and I don't like being left on read, so I tend to respond back as soon as possible. If I get super busy, I'll respond within a day, but I will also let you know that I'll be unresponsive.

Relationship wise, I want to get to know you for a month or two to assess chemistry and see if we can keep up communication. If yes, then I wouldn't mind us going exclusive. If not, then we just don't vibe and move on.

My love language involves:

  • Spending quality time together.

  • Physical touches with consent - would like someone who likes to cuddle or spoon

  • Making you feel safe and happy.

  • Stay in touch at least once a week.

  • Open communication - We're adults, we should air out what troubles us and get through it together.

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