I'm Aisling, or Ash for short. I tend to write walls of text, but gonna try (I failed) to force myself to keep things brief.

• I'm about 5'10".
• Been on HRT for 1.75 years. Currently androgynous/chapstick, confident in my masc side, while still exploring my more fem side.
• Very Plus-sized. On a weight loss journey (Dr Assisted)
• Left-wing Politically. Pro-BLM, Pro-LGBTQ , Pro-Palestine, etc.
• Child-free, and very comfortable with that. I'm 100% prepared to be the cool engineer aunt.
• I don't personally smoke or drink due to meds, but I'm cool if you do
• Full-time Undergrad Student set to graduate later this year.

Compatibility stuff:

• Poly and currently partnered in a LDR with a wonderful woman.
• Open to romance, but it must be based on a foundation of friendship.
• Ideally I want to meet people who are around my age, so please be between 24-36. I am flexible on this if we are at similar points in life though.
• In an intimate dynamic, I'd likely come off as a more of a service top/gentle Dom. But I occasionally have my sub moments, more so with a more dominate partner.
• I want to know your needs and wants. Openly communicate what you need from me and I'll make it happen if I can.
• I'm big on open communication and setting boundaries. Also big on respecting them once set.
• I can sometimes seek out reassurance from my partner. These moments are fleeting, but can crop up if my anxiety gets to me.

Now, onto the fun stuff:

• Gamer. Play almost anything. Own a PC, PS5, and Switch. Current go-to's - Pokemon, Helldivers, League (ARAMs/TFT), Stardew Valley, Path Of Exile, Victoria 3, Minecraft (Java, Modded) etc.
• Maker of things. Wood. Metal. Resin. I enjoy making things and working with different materials. Throw in some LED's and random electronic stuff and I am like a kid in a candy store.
• Music is the language of my soul! From metal to K-pop, I love to share and exchange music interests with others.
• I'm a visual media obsessed nerd. Be it YouTube, movies, or shows. Currently slightly obsessed with Frieren, LOVM S3, Arcane S2, Critical Role (Revisting C2) and more.
• Getting back into reading and audiobooks. Currently on Dune, with the Murder Bot series in the chamber. If you've got a favorite I'd love to add it to my list.

I am far more wordy in actual conversation. That said, I am an open book, feel free to ask questions if you have any. Shoot me a message if any of this resonates with you!
(P.S. I wont reply to any messages that are low effort or are just like "Hey, I'm ____." Come on peeps. Tell me a bit about yourself!)