Hello! I travel often and wherever I wish so I am open to anywhere. I live in the United States but would like to visit or live overseas one day. I was raised in the south, currently live in the midwest, and will be spending two months in New England this fall. After that I can go anywhere I want. Before I waste anyone’s time I would like to list some things about myself and things that I find important in a partner:

-I am 32, cis female, blonde hair (currently medium length), blue eyes, 5’6”, 135 pounds (average build), chapstick lesbian. I’m looking for someone between the ages of 25 - 40 ish. Femme or masc isn’t important to me. 

-I am an omnivore and eat whatever I want but try to stay on the healthy side. Having a partner that is also healthy and average build or fit is important to me. I like being a homebody but also like to go out and do physical activities. 

-I don't have any children and I don’t want any.

-I am an atheist and not interested in anyone religious. I celebrate the fun parts of christmas.

-I don’t smoke anything or vape. I am not interested in anyone that smokes cigarettes, is a major stoner, vapes, does hard drugs, or drinks excessive alcohol. I will eat a small THC gummy or have a few drinks from time to time. 

-I'm a democrat. I'm not super involved in politics but I vote. I'm not interested in republicans. 

-I like sex a normal amount. I am not interested in asexual people or lesbian bed death. I am happy having vanilla sex if that’s the mood but I also like a little kinky and BDSM sex. I wouldn't want all of my sex to be vanilla every time. I want someone I can explore and be comfortable with, not someone shy or insecure in the bedroom. 

-I don’t have any pets. I have a lot of experience with pets. If my partner didn’t need one, I would be happy living a pet-free life. This isn’t a total deal breaker for me depending on the animal and its behavior. 

-I like women that are confident, smart, loving, reassuring, and problem-solvers. Taking care of yourself is important to me. This includes good hygiene, good dental care, regular haircuts, clean living environment, ect. I am very independent but I like being in a relationship. I have no interest in teaching someone how to be an adult.

Ideally, I’m looking for a partner that makes me a better person and I make them a better person. I am a giver and very motivated by my partner. I want a partner that also does things for me and gives me the same effort in return. I’m looking for an emotionally mature and available person that knows how to be in a relationship and is serious about being in a relationship. Communication, respect, and understanding are important to me. 

I like making jokes and being goofy in private. I can be a little introverted in social settings when meeting a group of new people. Unlike a lot of other queer women, I am not into anime, gaming (I play Stardew Valley sometimes), or spiritual/witchy things. 

I don’t have any social media like facebook, instagram, snap, or tiktok. I just started posting on reddit a little while ago so it’s not very interesting- don’t judge me too harshly on it haha I would be happy to send pictures and video chat to verify my identity after vibing with someone. Ideally, if I hit it off with someone, I would be happy to chat long distance and then travel to be closer to them and date in person. If you are anywhere around New England, we could meet sooner. Thanks for reading!