Hi everybody! So, um, it’s been a heck of a ride discovering who I actually am. Some facts:

My birthday is tomorrow and I will be 57.

I have been on HRT for 8 months and at my most “trying to pass” have a Robin Williams as Mrs. Doubtfire vibe. I don’t love it either. So yes, I present as male.

I am in a long-term committed dead bedroom relationship with a cishet woman. We’ve been in an ENM / open relationship for the last 2 years and together for 13. That isn’t going to change.

I have mild cerebral palsy and use a hot pink wheelchair to get from point A to point B.

Macho male energy has always bothered me and now it disgusts me. More than that, I’m seeing it everywhere, and understanding societal sexism in a way I never have before.

I’m looking for someone to be close to, who can make me feel safe, and is a generally positive person.

I’m kind, funny, smart, and love to take care of people. I can write, research, and think but have no skills that would be useful in a worldwide cataclysm.

If I do meet someone it would have to go slow because I haven’t really put myself out there since 2011 and I’m terrified.

I am a tiny bit pudgy with no hair on top, and have no money in the budget for wigs. Brown hair and eyes.

I have always felt close to / been friends with lesbians, even when I knew nothing about their sexuality. It’s a vibe.

I’m nor just looking for another trans lesbian - in fact, I think I’d prefer someone with a little more experience/knowledge.

I’ve spent my life working in the theatre, most recently as a dramaturg.

If you think WAP was the first sexual song to be popular, you are too young for me.

Anybody? Bueller?