Hi everyone, I once made a post here many months ago and met a couple great women through it, so I thought I’d try it again!!

I’m Kylie, an Astronomy PhD student living in the DMV area. I’ve never had a gf before, and I’d like to explore what it’s like to date a woman. Also need more women friends in my life, so no expectations about anything. Whatever happens, happens. My (receiving) love languages are acts of service and words of affirmation, so I don’t need things to be in person, nor to take up a lot of our own individual time. I’d ideally love a partner with whom we can both help each other improve and chase our respective goals in life.

More about my identity: I’m AFAB, but consider myself on the non-binary spectrum, possibly agender. I prefer they/them pronouns but she/her is fine as well. I’m also on the asexual spectrum, maybe demi or aego. I am open to the concept of sex, but I do not have a high libido, nor is sex important to me as a form of intimacy. I much prefer getting to know people on a deep intellectual, emotional, or spiritual level. Non-sexual touch is fine — I love giving and receiving head or back scratches or having someone play with my hair.

Some facts about me. I’m an ENTJ, meaning I am quite direct, logical, and love working. I also suffer from a history of childhood trauma, which I am actively working on. I believe mental and physical health are very important. My hobbies are listening to melodic dubstep and trance music, dancing at EDM festivals, watching anime, playing video games and board games, going ice skating, studying Japanese, and yoga. I have a huge fluffy 3yr-old cat. I am not religious, but I am spiritual. I have meditative and mindfulness practices that I engage in and would love someone to share that with.

Due to my history of trauma, I have some hard boundaries. If you smoke or vape, have a tendency to yell, or have difficulty managing your emotions, I am not interested in getting to know you.

1 if you can listen well, have something you’re passionate about and working towards in life, and can carry intellectual conversations.

If any of this resonated with you, feel free to DM me.