I’d appreciate you reading this all XD

What I’m Looking For:

Hi there, you’ve probably seen my post before lol. I definitely met nice people for sure :) But that click never happened you know?

What is that click? Well at its basic level, it’s someone you just have a chemistry with. You talk to this person and everything just flows naturally and feels right.

But deeper than that, I hope to find a profound connection with someone. Where it feels like our souls just resonate on deep level. We understand and get each other in a way no one else has gotten us. We feel fully safe to be ourselves with each other. We don’t have to hold back, we can share all of us with the other person and feel truly seen by them. I’m looking for someone I meet and it feels like I’ve already known them forever.

And if I found a connection like that I hope to actually know them forever. That’s what I’m looking for ultimately. I’m looking something serious. I hope to have the person I can share my life with. I’m looking for a wife for sure.

I want something that will truly last forever through anything. “Ride or die” is such a cringe term to me lol, but that’s what I’m really looking for. I have an unbreakable loyalty when I’m committed to someone.

I’m going to be honest, I don’t do well with small talk lol and that’s where a lot of convos die for me. I like to start heavy and find out the little details as we go along. Heavy means anything at all. Anything important to you, anything that’s going on in life. Idc I want to hear it.

Only message if you’re sure looking for something serious. And do not message me if you ever ghost people

About me

I’m a INTJ 5w4, and personality wise, I’m like 2 different people lol. Emotional and logical. I can be really sweet and wholesome. Supportive, the kind of person that will always be there for you. I’m also extremely affectionate both physically and with words. I’ll always talk about how much you mean to me :) But I also can be a quite overly logical jerk lol. Best of both worlds I guess. When I’m comfortable I can be really goofy and loud, and give crackhead energy, but in the beginning I’m really quiet and reserved. I try to be positive and nonjudgmental, while also being very strongly opinionated XD.

I’m a contradiction but I love that about myself.

I also can be pretty dark. I have a good mixture of being wholesome and dark lol. It’s weird.

And I’m weird, I’m known to be a pretty generally eccentric and person lol

I want to say this. I’m in very pivotal point of life. Where I’m trying to make change, when things have been unchanged for awhile. I say this to say, if you’re looking for someone who has it all figured out… That’s not me, but hopefully it will be soon. I’d be happy in finding someone who can grow with me.

Important tidbits. * I am obsessive and clingy when I fall for someone. (Not in a crazy way) lol * Strictly Monogamous * Agnostic atheist. * I have BPD, we can talk about what that entails * I have a pretty dark humor XD * Currently in college.

Looks wise: I’m black, 5’2, very masc presenting, I have a short haircut and dress masc. I am def plus size, but definitely not like huge lol and currently losing weight as well :)

Interests: Gaming, true crime docs, horror/thriller movies, I love all kinds of music. Particularly R&B, rock/metal, and Kpop though XD. I watch a lot of YouTube and tiktok. Working out/going to the gym, as I’ve recently started a new fitness journey. I’m kind of huge homebody tbh, wanting to get out more and have new experiences.

Who I’m Looking For:

Looks don’t matter much to me. You can be fem or masc, but I usually date fem leaning or androgynous.

Personality wise: I like a lot of different personalities. Some important traits though would be having emotional intelligence, Someone patient and caring. Also having a good logical side is very very important to me. As I said above I’m pretty affectionate and clingy so I’d match best with someone also like that lol. You can be introverted or extroverted. But too extroverted won’t be a match.

I’m also looking for someone who is not too normal lol, me and normal don’t seem to connect.

Age 22 to 35. I am from Chicago in the US, but I would love to talk to women from anywhere because relocation is something I definitely want. I’m open to relocate anywhere gay marriage is legal lol

Thank you for reading all of this. If you’re interested please message me a little about you :)