I'm looking for the long haul, as in a life partner. I'm 41 about to be 42 this month, and I'm 5'1. Kinda on the soft butch side of things as well. I've been pretty alone since my partner passed away 3 years ago suddenly due to a blood clot. (Please learn the signs and if you -ever- suspect for moment something might be wrong please get checked out.) While I appreciate them, please hold your condolences. I mention this because sometimes I worry when I start getting to know someone that this will happen again. So I will check on you and make sure you're ok like daily.

People always include what they do for work, but I'm disabled. C-PTSD. I attend therapy 1 to 2 times a week. As my therapist would say "while other people are out working, I'm working on myself." And I have been for a long time. I would appreciate anyone that DMs me please be stable, mentally healthy, and responsible.

All that being said my passions are video games, cooking, my cats and getting healthier. That includes working out and eating better. I'm also interested in paracording, learning how to build my own computer, and simple DIY (right now working on pet stairs and a cat tree).

What am I looking for? I'd like someone that is sweet and kind with an open heart. I don't really care about looks and I'm attracted to personality. I'd like to build something lasting over time with someone I can know and trust completely. I know that takes time.

My DMs are open to all women and from any location as long as you're able to travel. If long distance please be prepared for gaming and movie dates.

Oh and my favorite board game is Great Western Trail, bonus points and cookies if you know how to play.

As an added note, I want to state again that I am not femme and can't be made to be. If you're not into women that are soft butch or in between or whatever, then please don't bother messaging me. Thank you.