Hi!!! <3 Been excited to make a post here so here it is!

I’m 24 and a genderfluid AFAB lesbian in WA state looking for love irl or online with the goal of irl! I’m fine with anyone older than me or the same age as me, or even a year younger.

My looks and other stuff: I’m 5’3, black & Mexican, light-skinned, femme, around 120 pounds, with curly hair. I have about a lot of nerdy tattoos and a septum piercing. I’m slightly toned from stripping but trying to get back into weightlifting to stay toned since I'm taking a break from that work! I’m bipolar and have BPD. Neurodivergent too but I haven’t had the resources to get tested if it’s autism or otherwise. INFJ and Cancer Sun. I'm also Catholic ( I haven't been to church in years though).

My interests and things worth noting about myself I think:

• I’m planning to have a kid soon via sperm donor and am very excited to be a mom.
• I love to read and write when I have free time. I love gaming, especially Genshin Impact, Dead Space, The Last of Us 2, Stardew Valley, and Halo. Some shows I love are Smiling Friends, Killing Eve, Hannibal, Orphan Black, and Euphoria. My favorite movie is Love Lies Bleeding, I yearn for a relationship like theirs. I also love YouTubers like SuperMega and Game Grumps.
• Pro-Palestine, Pro-Congo, Pro Sudan!!!
• U-Haul lesbian (unironically) - if I truly love someone, I would go to the ends of the earth for them and feel there’s no need to wait to express feelings or even marriage. I date to marry.
• I dream of having a sustainable farm with lots of amazing animals (TLOU2 farmhouse is the dream haha)
• I guess I’m a submissive switch heavily leaning bottom. I don’t strap... I don't mind it used on me but fine with or without 😊 I'm pretty kinky too. I have a HIGH libido!!!
• Monogamous!
• I'm very open about my life and trauma but there are some things I'm not open about/open about doing that some people consider odd.

What I’m looking for/interested in:

• Wants to be in my life and my future kid's life forever! (I’m planning to have a kid in my near future so if you don’t want kids ever, it’s a dealbreaker). I’m also fine having more kids with you and me carrying all of them but I’m fine with just the one kid I’m hoping to have soon.
• SW-er friendly
• Someone who’s not friends with their ex - unless you two have shared custody of a kid or pet obviously but otherwise, I don’t see the point personally. This is a hard boundary of mine and dealbreaker.
• Someone who’s fine with us having our own rooms/places to stay rather than live in the same room long term but still love to spend tons of time together.
• I’d love to be your best friend! I think it’s important to date someone you can call your best friend as well.
• Cheating is a hard boundary that we wouldn't get past no matter what, this includes kissing your friends for fun.
• I tend to like mascs and femmes, but fine with whoever. <3 Love having intense sexual attraction to each other though!
• Someone with a high libido and a bit kinky. A top or switch HEAVILY leaning top. I’ve learned through experience that people who are tops are way more sexually compatible with me and in tune with me in bed than switches/bottoms since most switches I talk to are bottom-leaning too(nothing wrong with that of course, I just don’t want there to be expectations from me to top, especially with a strap).
• Someone who’s kind and playful (likes to have tickle fights and laughing together) but also likes to be a hater with me. It’s nice being able to express ourselves in any emotion without feeling the need to hide it.

If any of my things sound odd, it’s mostly likely past experiences that have made me realize I need to set specific boundaries.

Comment or DM me if you think our interests align!! 😊 I may be skeptical of sending photos at first, just FYI, just cause of safety reasons.