Hi there, this will be a bit long. I appreciate you reading it all lol :)

What I’m Looking For:

I’m looking for someone to make a connection with, and hopefully become something serious and last forever :) I want someone I can give all of me to and share my life with. I can talk to you about anything, and just fully be myself with and don’t have to hold anything back. Someone I can share my deepest thoughts with, and most unhinged parts XD. And they also share with me all of them. I’ve always dreamed of being fully known and understood by someone. Someone loving me for all of me, and loving someone for all of them. I have a world of love to give and want someone I can shower in it. I’m a hopeless romantic, after everything I’ve been through I still choose to believe true love is real and I’ll have it one day.

I want something that will truly last forever through anything. “Ride or die” is such a cringe term to me lol, but that’s what I’m really looking for. I have an unshakable loyalty when I’m committed to someone.

Only message if you’re sure looking for something serious. And do not message me if you ever ghost people

A little bit about me.

I’m a INTJ 5w4, and personality wise, I’m like 2 different people lol. Emotional and logical. I can be really sweet and wholesome. Supportive, the kind of person that will always be there for you. I’m also extremely affectionate both physically and with words. I’ll always talk about how much you mean to me :) I’m really emotionally intelligent generally. But I also can be a quite overly logical jerk sometimes lol. Best of both worlds I guess. When I’m comfortable I can be really goofy and loud, and give crackhead energy, but in the beginning I’m quiet and reserved. I try to be positive and nonjudgmental, while also being very strongly opinionated XD.

I can be pretty dark. I have a good mixture of being wholesome and dark lol. It’s weird

I’m a contradiction but I love that about myself. I’m a pretty eccentric person generally just warning you lol.

Important tidbits. * I am very obsessive and clingy when I fall for someone. (Not in a crazy way) lol * Strictly Monogamous * Agnostic atheist. * I have BPD, we can talk about what that entails * I have a pretty dark humor XD * I don’t like too much small talk, let’s get heavy.

Looks wise: I’m black, 5’2, very masc presenting, I have a short haircut and dress masc. I am def plus size, but definitely not like huge lol and currently losing weight as well :)

Interests: Gaming, true crime docs, horror/thriller movies, I love all kinds of music. Particularly R&B, rock/metal, and Kpop though XD. I watch a lot of YouTube and tiktok. Working out/going to the gym, as I’ve recently started a new fitness journey. I’m kind of huge homebody tbh, wanting to get out more and have new experiences.

Who I’m Looking For:

Looks don’t matter much to me. You can be fem or masc.

Personality wise: I like a lot of different personalities. Some important traits though would be having emotional intelligence, Someone patient and caring. Also having a good logical side is very very important to me. As I said above I’m pretty affectionate and clingy so I’d match best with someone also like that lol. You can be introverted or extroverted. But too extroverted won’t be a match.

Age 22 to 40. I am from Chicago in the US, but I would love to talk to women from anywhere because relocation is something I definitely want. I’m open to relocate anywhere gay marriage is legal lol

Thank you for reading all of this. If you’re interested please message me a little about you. :)