I will write some about me and what Im looking for, I like to write a lot so Im not sure how long this will be, so If you dont like reading a lot, then we arent compatible lol but I will give a quick summary of what Im looking for so you dont have to read that long of my post if you dont fit that criteria (I know Im asking for someone very specific but if she doesnt exist Im ok with staying single forever)

-- Im looking for a cis woman, 100% lesbian someone who isnt confused about her sexuality, ready to settle down, femme, girly, monogamous (wanting to be with only 1 person forever, no having fantasies about threesomes etc), old enough to date me because Im 35, introverted, short (under 5'5), petite, bottom, submissive, honest, loyal, know how to communicate very well, romantic, kinky, clingy, know how to make conversation, emotional intelligent, you know affective responsibility, know how to make me feel wanted and cared for, respectful of my religion and religions in general,because Im catholic (you dont have to be religious but not talk shit on my beliefs or try to stop me from believing in what I want), not have exes or situationships as friends, not into astrology,magic or tarot, not into illegal drugs or be an alcoholic, not being a flirt with other people while in a relationship or someone who looks for external validation, no face, neck tattoos or gauges.

Im old enough to have tried a lot of things and everything, now Im 100% sure of what I want and what works for me and Im not willing to compromise my peace over someone who is not what Im looking for. For me is a relationship is something very sacred and special. I have learned you really can tell how much you love yourself by the partner you've chosen.

I like to very very honest and direct, I never lie, some people mistake me sometimes as rude, but I swear I dont say things thinking bad, I have autism so that can be the cause of me being like that. My autism just affect me in being kinda weird and veryyyyyyy antisocial and introverted, I dont like going to parties at all, or going to reunions, or meeting people I dont know. Im a INTJ.

Im a cis lesbian, I have always know Im gay since I was a little girl. I used to be skinny and since I have some problems with how I look( because of some trauma) , I decided maybe I just wanted to gain weight and look different so right now Im chubby and I dont like it lmaoooo Im gonna lose the weight. I wanna be clear that I dont have low self esteem, I have learned to really love myself with therapy, meds and just over the years experiences, I have learned to know my worth, just have some problems with my looks still.

I also have ADHD so I have very bad memory and short attention span, but that doesnt mean I wont give attention and listen to what you have to say, in fact when I like someone I put so much attention and care in that person. My adhd pretty much just affects the things I dont really care about.

Im a hopeless romantic, I love hard, Im very consistent, I will never leave you wondering about anything, I have never ghosted anyone, I also have never cheated, even if it was just like a situationship. I like talking to only one person and putting all my attention in one person. Im very excited to the idea of growing old together with someone and keep choosing that person forever. My words follow my actions. Im not friends with exes or situationships or entertain people who like me more than a friend, I also dont stalk those people in any way, I retire my whole energy from them and its like they never existed.

I recognize the value of a person since the beginning, Im not one of those that only realize what they had when they lost it.

I like to think Im a very emotionally intelligent person and have a lot of affectionate responsibility.

I believe that if youre in a relationship you face life together, not separate and not against each other, you need to think for the 2 in the relationship not only in yourself, which I think a lot of people dont do because theyre selfish.

Also I believe in a relationship where theres no insults and cussing each other, I would neverrr insult someone Im in a relationship with and I ask for the same, of course there can be banter and joking, but Im talking about disagreements or when someone gets mad, I have a policy of 0 insults, if you get mad you can take time for yourself, but Im one of those people that will never get on an argument without solving it, I always wanna talk about it.

With me you will never have to question my loyalty to you, or to question anything to be honest. Im not hesitant and indecisive,I will make you feel loved like never before, seen, respected, desired and safe. Your opinions and thoughts will be cherished, valued, respected and acknowledged, I dont brush things off and I also ask for the same.

I cant stand when people like to do the bare minimum in a relationship, with me you have to match my energy, Im a very passionate person when it comes to love. Also I need someone with my communication style, I dont want anyone avoidant or someone who can go days without talking to me, no one is too busy for someone they care about,, if you dont have consistency and integrity with me, then we arent compatible.

Im the kind of person that if my girlfriend dont like something or dont want me to do something, I dont do it, or if they want me to do something I do it.

Love isnt enough for a relationship to last, you need connection, intimacy, safety , accountability, vulnerability and trust.

I also wanna ask for someone who have healed their problems or working on healing them, because I have put so much effort in healing for everything that has happened to me and I continue to put effort in being the best version of me for me and for anyone who wants to love me. I ask for this because some people dont even put effort on their mental health and dont even want to heal, I have learned that someone who doesnt want to get help, is someone Im not compatible with. Also some people believe a good relationship needs "drama" and feel bored when they enter a normal loving relationship, Im also not compatible with that type of person.

The difference between happy couples and the unhappy ones is that happy couples are kinder when they speak to each other, they treat each other more gently without criticism or sarcasm. You need mutual respect, consideration, affection and treating each other in the ways we feel close and valued the most, having empathy in our communication. I wont nurture a relationship with someone who avoid emotions and find them exhausting. I learned to invest in the person that also invests in me.

The degree which a person can grow is directly proportional to the amount of truth that they can accept about themselves without running away.

Im not from the USA, which I know the majority of the people here are, but I think the love of my life can be anywhere in the world so I dont mind of what part of the world are you. If we happen to be soulmates someone has to move. I speak spanish and english.

I graduated university and I work (will give personal details about any stuff to the person I talk to) but to he honest, I dont like working or studying lmaoo I said Im very honest and this is a trait of mine that will put off some people I know, because some people love working and want their partner to have work goals and all that stuff, but I wasnt born to do labor lol I still have to work because I need to exist and this economy is insane but If could stop working, I would do it in a heart beat. But Im fine and happy with my low wage job and I dont mind if you love working or not working, just that you respect my way of thinking.

Like I said Im religious and I think thats something very private, I dont mind if you arent religious, I just need respect about that. I also believe in energies and some of that stuff, but never messing with rituals and that kind of things so I ask for my future gf to be the same. Also not messing with paranormal things, like ouija boards etc.

I like the paranomal, aliens etc but always from afar and not getting involved with it. I dont like astrology or tarot at all so I would never date someone who is into those things.

My favorite hobby is to watch movies and tv shows, I love movies so so much, I like every genre, so I would appreciate someone who likes to watch a lot of things with me and dont get tired of it.

I like all types of music, really all types, but I do have my favorites, like Taylor Swift, Blackpink, Adele, Britney Spears, Twice, Oasis, Green Day, Lady Gaga, Celine Dion, Kelly Clarkson, Placebo and a million of more artists.

I will talk now about how Im a very dominant person and I like bdsm, but I need to clarify, I will not talk about something this personal with someone I just met, I just feel the need I need to bring it up because some people are not into that.

Im a demiromantic lesbian, which means I get attracted to the person after getting to know them and talking after a while.

I dont drink, I have never gotten drunk, I dont smoke, I dont do drugs, but I do take cbd for anxiety.

Also I have to add that I love Disney and amusement parks, I have seen a lot of people hate on people who like Disney, so if you are one of those Im not into you either.

Ok so this is everything I wanna say, I think, please not be a catfish, I will ask for social media and pictures to see if youre real.

Thank you for reading all of this and Im sorry if Im all over the place.

Im gonna find you soulmate and I will create a wonderful and beautiful love reality for both of us.