It's been a couple of months since my last post here. So, I thought of giving it another shot.
About me:-
• Indian (currently living in India).
• cis woman (she/her).
• monogamous.
• femme/stem (my appearance changes according to my mood and the particular day); wheatish skin tone, shoulder length jet black hair, dark brown eyes, wear glasses, no tattoos and piercings (will share my pic and have a video call as soon as I feel comfortable with you).
• short height (5'4"), average physique (around 120-125 lbs).
• ambivert ( my introversion or extroversion depends on my mood and the particular day).
- don't smoke, drink or do drugs.
• agnostic, omnivore.
• private tutor.
• demisexual (I need strong emotional and romantic bond to be sexually attracted to someone).
• virgo and INTJ (If you're into these kind of staff haha).
• love good books, delicious foods, deep conversations, long walks, scented candles, flavoured tea, classical music, ancient history, makeup, fashion, Disney, the colour pink, foraging nature, cafe hopping, museums, botanical gardens, aquariums, zoos, exploring new places and different cultures, watching documentaries, celebrating holidays, horror stuff, concerts, theatres, peace and quiet and travelling.
• not into animes, manga and video games (I mentioned it because it might be a deal breaker for you).
• love language:- All of them. But, I prioritise "Quality Time", "Acts of Service" and "Giving/Receiving Gifts" more than the other ones.
• want to get married/have a civil union someday.
• don't want biological kids but open to adopting kids later on.
About you:-
• strict monogamous.
• femme leaning/stem/futch/chapstick.
• between 23-28 (I'd relax it by 1-2 years for the right woman).
• a good conversationalist (I need deep and regular conversations in order to form a bond with someone).
• don't take forever to text back (I understand if you're busy but I don't think it'll go anywhere if we're gonna speak only once/twice a day).
• non-smoker, non/moderate drinker, non drug user.
• like going out and not a complete shut in or recluse.
• ambivert (Tbh, I'd love it if my partner was a bit more extroverted than me).
• have a somewhat adventurous spirit; love exploring new places, try new things as long as something's not too crazy haha, travelling.
• respect my boundaries; especially when it comes to anything sexual.
• being accepting of my culture, heritage, traditions and beliefs.
• agnostic/atheist/spiritual (Being culturally religious is cool too).
• interested in art, culture and literature (Not a mandatory requirement of course; but it would be nice if we had some interests in common).
• not into BDSM or kinks (Sorry but it's not my thing).
• currently doesn't have children (Sorry but I'm not ready to be a parent right now).
• already out of the closet or planning on coming out to your family soon (Sorry but I can't date a completely closeted woman).
• willing to share your pic and have voice/video calls once you feel comfortable with me.
• interested in living a "traditional" life (like:- getting married, buying a house, raising kids/pets, going on dates, sharing hobbies, celebrating holidays, travelling together etc.).
Of course, it's a perfect scenario and nobody's perfect.
I'm open to ldr since it's really difficult to find women to date here as long as we make plans to meet in person and live together someday. I'm NOT interested in a casual/online relationship.
If you think we'll get along, feel free to send me a dm/message. Please write a short intro of yourself (like:- age, location, likes/dislikes, hobbies, what you're looking for in a potential partner, deal breakers etc.).
Also, dm me ONLY if you're interested in a monogamous and long term relationship. At this moment, I'm not looking for friends, penpals, chat buddies, timepass, casual/online relationship. Sorry for being blunt but I wanted to make my expectations clear.
Looking forward to getting to know you 😊.
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