Curiosity has led me to explore this rabbit hole for possibilities. I’m sleuthing for a romantic relationship.

About me: I wouldn’t call myself a typical 34 year old. I have a tendency to over share and am still learning about myself. If you are a fan of the Myers Briggs tests, astrological signs and all those good insightful things , I’m a solid INFJ-T. Considered a caregiver with ambition. Aquarius with a Capricorn Moon.

I am monogamous and single, desiring someone to grow with, encourage and support each other. I am Demi-sexual and butch/masc, meaning that it takes mental connection building for me to form meaningful relationships. It also means that while physical attraction is a great plus, it is not as important as mental and emotional connection. But, hey- it’s a huge plus if that spark happens and we are both attracted to each other psychically too!

Here is my photo for transparency. I’m 5’7 and “boxy”. I’m cosplaying as Link from Zelda BOTW. https://imgbox.com/qggdjQd3

I really do consider myself a super nerd, maybe there is some sapiosexual in there. Here is a slightly exhaustive list of my current hobbies and interests.

Ancient/Languages (Greek, Latin, Japanese, Hieroglyphics, Korean, etc.) Cryptology and Ciphers History/Philosophy Herbal Medicine/Gardening/Botany/Herbology (Carnivorous Plants ooh) The Occult / Tarot / Astrology I’m kinky as hell (You’ve been warned) True Crime / Mysteries Anime/Hentai/Yaoi/Yuri/Manga Marvel & DC Gaming [Call of Duty, PS5, Harvest Moon, Switch, PC, DDR] Libraries and Bookstores Furries, Woof. Museums Reading [Historical Fiction, Mystery, Thriller, Manga] Fanfiction & Writing (I write smut) Musical Instruments Biology/Microbiology/Chemistry/Science Cosplay & Roleplay

Music I like:

The Deftones Rammestein Imagine Dragons A Perfect Circle Korn Gorillaz Akira Yamaoka The Gazette Dir En Grey Radiohead Earth Wind & Fire Doja Cat The Last Dragon Soundtrack Grease Soundtrack Puscifer Disney Soundtracks Red Hot Chili Peppers

What I’m looking for:

I am permanently in East TN for a good amount of years to come, and would prefer East Coast or if luck strikes, the same state. However, I am willing to travel for the right person. I would prefer either a genderqueer/cis-female/non-binary/femme person but will consider others in special cases. I would also really prefer those around my age (30-38) because I think we will be able to relate better. Honestly, I just want to send flowers to your job to save your bad day. I’m a hopeless romantic.

If you couldn’t tell by the sheer length of this post, I talk a lot in message format because I feel able to express myself better this way? One sided conversations are not fun though, so if you aren’t interested anymore or are stuck, just say so ^{^} I will completely understand. I can be shy to start in person before you start to think I’m actually an extrovert. (I’m not). Ambition is great! Goals are wonderful! Let’s talk about it. Be my princess? lol

Thank you for taking the time to read this.