I’ve posted a couple times before, but delete when I tend to get carried away or overwhelmed. Oops.

First and foremost I’m looking for a relationship. I’m really tired of being asked to be friends, be someone’s experiment, etc. I’m really exhausted from being told “oh I didn’t realize you were looking for a relationship.” I don’t mind going slow or pacing ourselves… but I don’t want my heart played with, it hurts.

My area doesn’t have a very high queer population, and I’m a bit of a homebody as it is so it’s near impossible to get out and meet anyone. I'm super exhausted from all the dating apps and unicorn-hunting couples.

About Me:. 28 cisF and an Aquarius!
Femme4Femme Top from the US Pacific Northwest.

I have ADHD and consider myself a 'Jack of All Trades,' but my true passions are gaming, editing for a fantasy series, theatre, and riding my eBike. The ADHD does noticeably impact my life however, so I'd like to meet someone who understands that.

I really love video games! See if you can guess which ones!

I’m 6' tall, which I realize is a bit unusual for a femme lesbian, but thems the breaks. I’d like to say I’m fairly attractive, but I am also deceptively geeky. l’m strictly monogamous, and not really a fan of anything else. I like to try to stay somewhat physically healthy, though I’ve ended up being a total stick creature eldritch horror.

I have long brown hair and intense eyes, and I've been told I can come across as a bit intimidating, but I promise I'm just a big ol' goofball at heart.

I'm seeking someone who shares my love for video games, nerdy fandoms, and an affinity for cats (unfortunately, dogs are a no-go for me, with the odd exception of Huskies/Malamutes. I love those). If you're into uncommon pets like tarantulas or snakes, I also consider that a major green flag!

I’m a big language fanatic. I’m currently learning my third language (Japanese) and have been for about 3-4 years. My second language was French which I learned ages ago and am a bit out of practice of but still understand.

While I prefer to get around on my eBike due to the bureaucratic hassle of owning a car, I'd love to meet someone who can easily travel to my area. Long-distance journeys for me however are very challenging, thanks to being constrained by my two-wheeled friend (and the absolutely abysmal lack of a transit system in this country).

I'm decidedly childfree. Family planning isn't in my cards, as I'm not looking to have kids EVER in the future, but I do absolutely adore them. I envision being the fun, gift-giving aunts to my niece and nephews!

I’m very against tobacco use, so please be a non-smoker. Alcohol and Weed are ok in my book however.

I’m also an atheist, and being around theistic people is rather an uncomfortable situation for me. Specifically, abrahamic religions are dealbreakers for me.

If any of this resonates with you and you're up for the adventure of discovering more about each other, I'd love to hear from you. Feel free to send me a message with a good joke or your favorite songs, and maybe things can go from there!

I’d appreciate a picture if you DM me! I’m a bit nervous to post myself but I’ll give it a shot…

Thanks for reading! I know it’s a very long post… I hope there’s a girl out there for me!