I’ve posted before, but I’ve taken down a post or two before when I got nervous or had a bad experience, but I’m feeling the pangs of loneliness so I wanted to try again!

My area doesn’t have a very high queer population, and I’m a bit of a homebody as it is so it’s near impossible to get out and meet anyone. I'm exhausted from all the dating apps and unicorn-hunting couples.

About Me: 28 cisF and an Aquarius!
Living in the Pacific Northwest.
I am a Top and Femme4Femme. I can come off as a little intimidating due to my stature and voice, but im actually a huge golden retriever / orange cat.

I embrace my ADHD and consider myself a 'Jack of All Trades,' but my true passions are gaming, editing for a fantasy series, theatre, and riding my eBike. The ADHD does noticeably impact my life however, so I'd like to meet someone who understands that.

I’m 6' tall, which I realize is a bit unusual for a femme lesbian, but thems the breaks. I’d like to say I’m fairly attractive, but I am likely way nerdier looking than I’m aware. I'm strictly monogamous, and don’t think I’d ever be comfortable with Poly. Especially not after the horrid experiences I’ve had with nonmonogamous and unicorn hunting people on dating apps and such.

I like to try to stay somewhat physically healthy, though I’ve ended up being a total stick creature eldritch horror. But I’ve been doing Tae Kwon Do lately and getting in pretty good shape! I have long brown hair and intense green eyes, and I've been told I can come across as a bit intimidating, but I promise I'm just a big ol' goofball at heart.

I'm seeking someone who shares my love for video games, nerdy fandoms, and an affinity for cats!

(unfortunately, dogs are a no-go for me, with the odd exception of Huskies/Malamutes. I love those). If you're into uncommon pets like tarantulas or snakes, I also consider that a major green flag!

I’m a big language fanatic. I’m currently learning my third language (Japanese) and have been for about 3-4 years. My second language was French which I learned ages ago and am a bit out of practice of but still understand. I’d love to learn Korean at some point.

While I prefer to get around on my eBike due to the bureaucratic hassle of owning a car, I'd love to meet someone who can easily travel to my area. Long-distance journeys for me however might be a bit challenging, thanks to being constrained by my two-wheeled friend (and the absolutely abysmal lack of a transit system in this country).

I'm decidedly childfree. Family planning isn't in my cards, as I'm not looking to have kids EVER in the future, but I do absolutely adore them. I envision being the fun, gift-giving aunts to my niece and nephews!

I’m very against tobacco use, so please be a non-smoker. Alcohol and Weed are ok in my book however.

I’m also an atheist, and being around theistic people is rather an uncomfortable situation for me. Specifically, abrahamic religions are dealbreakers for me.

I don’t really care too much about age gaps as long as it’s ethical and it doesn’t feel like I’m dating someone who has antiquated/judgemental views. (ie. games aren’t for women, animation is for kids, disability is just a lack of willpower, etc)

If any of this resonates with you and you're up for the adventure of discovering more about each other, I'd love to hear from you. Feel free to send me a message with a good joke or your favorite songs, and maybe things can go from there!

I’d appreciate it a picture if you DM me and I’m happy to send one in exchange of course! Let me know if you use Discord as well!

Thanks for reading! I hope there’s a girl out there for me!

EDIT: adding age range just in case someone was worried about it.