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Valashe is a female age 30 looking for a female
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Hey,

I'm Diane. I live in the midwest and am looking for a monogamous relationship. I'm trans (if you care, 6 years on hrt, and 4 years postop?), and mostly identify with the label "chapstick lesbian". I love bouldering, working out (mostly just so I can get stronger for bouldering, lol), playing videogames, and playing board games with friends. It's not currently something I do a lot of, but I also love playing MTG and Lorcana. I'm a kinda meh at commander, and a complete newbie at Lorcana. Also, I'm a bit kinky. The less explicit summary is that I'm a sub and a bottom, and if you want to know more than that you'll have to DM me. I'm an open book.

I started climbing just about two years ago. I'm maybe one step above a beginner. Bouldering is the first form of exercise that I actually enjoy and can tolerate being a part of my routine. So, I made the decision that I had to do it, in order to stay active. I've met tons of queer folks through it. It is definitely at least half of the irl socializing I do, if not more. If you climb or work out and want a gym buddy, let's chat.

For videogames, I currently only playing World of Warcraft. But I'm open to playing other games. I've played League of Legends on/off since beta, and also have a sick addiction to puzzle games on my phone. I've sunk an unholy much time into Hashi, Slitherlink, and Nonogram. For other videogames, I often enjoy watching the people I care about play it much more than I enjoy playing it myself. My primary love languages are quality time and physical touch, so the idea of snuggling up to my partner while they play a game and we chit-chat while I watch is cheff kiss.

Where I live, marijuana is legal. And I enjoy edibles. Although it is not something I want to become a habit, so I never get high on my own, only with friends as a shared experience.

I really love simple dates. A perfect date for me would be getting dinner and then going to a park, laying on a blanket together, and staring at the night sky together. But also, I'm not picky! A perfect online date would be watching a movie together and heckling it, yelling at the characters for making silly decisions, or even just flirting while we play a videogame together. And something more elaborate in-person would be fun and enjoyable, though probably not my initial suggestion most of the time.

Also, I'm a software engineer for work. Its a big part of my life, its a nice way for me to just, fidget.

I'm looking for someone to share life with. My big love languages are quality time and physical affection, and its very easy to get quality time when we're both doing something we enjoy in the same space as one another. I think of myself as a goofball, and I'd love to have a partner equally goofy as myself (or at least entertained by my dumb jokes). I'm attracted to intelligence in all of its forms, and to confidence. I'm looking for a woman in the 25-40 age range.

Please feel free to dm me if you want to chat. If we vibe I'm happy to share pics.

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