๐ค Hellooo! I'm Tara (She/Her), a 26yr old demigirl from Appalachia. I'm a plus size, adrogynous, subby, lesbian, who doesn't shave her face everyday. I wanted to make this post to find some romance. I've only dated a little but I'm deeply romantic and I'd love to find someone to share that energy with. I also enjoy kink and to me, the trust and care that kink involves is very romantic as well. ๐ฅฐ
Something to know about me is that I'm very neurodivergent. I'm autistic, I have ADHD, and I struggle with anxiety & depression. With that, I find that I make very strong connections with people and while it's what I prefer, it can come off as clingy. I have a lots of social energy and when I click with someone I like to be able to share it. Also I'm plural and while, in my case, it doesn't come up often, it's something I like to be upfront about.
My hobbies basically boil down to one thing. I'm a creative! I love drawing especially, but I'm also into writing, worldbuilding, poetry, crafting, and all sorts of other stuff. I'm also a massive nerd. I like weird movies, I love cartoons, I watch old anime, I play PC games (BG3!), but most importantly I adore tabletop roleplaying games (it's my autistic fixation ๐ ).
When it comes to my personality, I'm all over the place lol. I'm a mix of alt, goth, & punk but I like all sorts of style aesthetics. I love spooky things ๐ป but I'm a scaredy cat ๐. I'm a furry too. I'm also a big fan of fantasy of all kinds and I also really enjoy the cyberpunk genre. Basically, I want to be a vampire cat girl that lives in a castle in the woods but also has wifi. Lastly, I'm a huge dork ๐.
Kink-wise, I'm a bratty sub (but easily broken), a kitten, and a little. Yes, sometimes I do age regress. I feel like a service top and a pillow princess bottom but I've never done anything in person. I am actually switch but in a long term relationship, I don't want to be the dom. Something I love about kink is the shared vulnerability and the trust that it takes ๐งก. Some of my biggest kinks are: Caregiver/Little, Collar/Leash, Clothes (Cozy, Cute, Lewd), CNC, Exhibition, Free Use, Orgasm Control, Ownership, Pet Play, Praise, Shibari, Spanking, Teasing, Toys (Dildos, Strokers, Vibrators, Fantasy Toys).
What I'm looking for is a committed long term relationship. While it would most likely start as long distance (cons of living in the middle of nowhere), I would like to meet someone I could see living with in the future. I am monogamous and it's important to me. As an inexperienced sub and little, I'd really appreciate a caring dom who can make me feel safe and help me explore. All in all, I just want someone that I can spend time with and find joy being around. My ideal romantic partnership Is first and foremost, a friendship. Someone that makes me feeled cared about and vice versa.
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