💕 23-in-a-few-months lesbian night owl, overnight worker, introvert, narcoleptic, and audhd - looking for another nocturnal homebody to watch copious amounts of film with ("film" meaning "But I'm a Cheerleader" for the 10th time)!

💕 I live in Yorkshire (Leeds) and would prefer people from the UK message; LDRs are not it for me unfortunately and international travel isn't something I can really do anyway, at the moment. I work and go to uni but that doesn't stop me making free time to take care of myself; I still have plenty of attention to give to the right person! I also live alone, have been self-sufficient for the last 2 years, and am working towards a career in speech therapy, in case anyone finds that kinda thing cool 😌

💕 Mainly into reading, writing, cross stitch and sewing (and I guess crochet, though I've only just started learning), baking (food), playing Animal Crossing (I'd probably game more if games weren't so expensive!), watching the same few Ghibli films a couple times a year, and dancing (poorly) to 90s and 00s Kpop to chase away the executive dysfunction. I really want cats in the future, too, but I have been raised around dogs my whole life and love both!

💕 When I do go out I mostly like to go to the cinema, get dinner, get boba to walk around with, window shop for terrible clothes, and visit museums if I'm in a new city! Also a big nature lover (grew up next to a wood(s?), I get very excited whenever it rains, and I'm currently very into identifying cloud types hahahaha). On good days I like to go for long walks, an hour or more, and I adore rural areas because of this. But I am usually a huge homebody; I'm a bit agoraphobic and narcolepsy is a chronic illness like any other that comes with good and bad days—if you're the type to get frustrated when stress/multiple days at work in a row wipe me out for 12-15 hours every now and then this will not work, and that's okay! If you're willing to nap with me or get me something to drink after a sleep attack, however... well that might be the most kindness anyone has ever shown me, lol
💕 If you want to ask questions about narcolepsy, please do! Some people kinda pussyfoot around it but I really don't mind

💕 I speak English and Korean! I'm a somewhat reformed Kpop stan lol; these days I listen to some girl groups (I was listening to Mamamoo in 2014/15 and not aware I was gay, everyone laugh), Korean indie and rock music, and whatever was on Kerrang! throughout the 2000s because I am a nut for nostalgia :') I listen to music on a pink Bratz MP3 player from 2007, too >:)!

💕 5'5 if my dr is in a good mood | INFJ, 4w5 and a Gemini if you're into that stuff (and given that I'm a June Gemini I guess I should hope you're not)

💕 In a relationship I'd say I'm very affectionate! I like physical affection a lot; it's probably one of my only deal breakers. I have some trauma and have had some bad experiences in the past I'm still working through, but I've been single a while now and have done a whole lot of therapy, so besides the odd need for comfort and a few nightmares, it doesn't tend to be a huge issue (I can't handle being yelled at, though. Patience is a huge virtue to me ahaha), it just makes me like physical contact a lot, where I can feel safe? I love learning about things I have no knowledge about so while having some things in common is obviously preferable, it's not a necessity. I tend to mesh better with other ND individuals; come infodump to me! The main things for me are finding someone understanding of my condition who won't use it against me and someone who doesn't mind the fact I usually sleep between around 8-10am and 4-6pm! Would also prefer a non-smoker.

💕 I don't use socials except for Reddit sometimes! I don't have Twitter/X or Instagram or anything. I know to some this is a red flag but they're not great for my mental health and I've been a million times happier since getting rid of them, tbh. I have no issues being in photos or posted to your/anyone else's socials lol, just don't like having them myself.

💕 20 , please! I tend to like women who are a bit older than myself (like, late 20s or early 30s if I'm being honest) but of course I understand that to a lot of said women I am basically a child; I'm just used to being the eldest in any situation, I've been through a fair bit already for my age and I had to grow up very rapidly (just trauma things!), so I tend to get along with those older than me. I'm also not that online and don't have TikTok, so a lot of my pop culture references are at least 10 years old by now 💀

💕 Tell me your favourite boba order (and be prepared to judge mine... I'm a 100% sugar girl for a start)!

💕 Please no TERFs, people wanting a "third", or men! Trans and NB lesbians are welcome, of course. I'm also strictly monogamous, so no poly, please! If you read this far, huge congrats to you, lol. I'm happy to supply pictures on request; there are probably a few old ones on here that aren't different to how I look now!