Hello everyone!
This is my second post here. Letting myself try my luck again, since I learned more specifically what my expectations were. It reprises my older post a bit, so I'm sorry if you have already seen my post and have to read through the same stuff again lmao.
Let me be clear: I'm looking for a steady relationship, LDR is fine. Free as the wind for two years now and totally ready for a new person, since I worked on my self-development a lot. Extensive questionable experience in relationships helps me with being realistic but who knows, maybe something will emerge from this.
Cis female. I live in Montenegro, born and raised in Moscow, adulted in Hungary, of mixed East European descent (mostly Polish), slightly taller than average, very slightly overweight (literally just a notch. I lost around 25 kg or 55 lbs), okay-looking in terms of my face (not particularly pretty yet palatable), with brown graying hair and dark hazel eyes, pale and a little bit freckled; as for the butch-femme spectrum, I'm considered a dyke by some (basically I just wear the natural look and baggy clothes).
Still trying to find my way in life. Right now I work as a computer technician; used to work at a hospital for 3,5 years as a chief administrative assistant; I also hold an unfinished degree in linguistics / English language teaching. My hobbies are messing with electronics, Linux system administration, (mostly old and indie) video games, reading medical articles and some other mostly non-fiction stuff mostly on geography; I also used to write poetry and music. Jack of all trades: there's barely a thing I can't do and I know a lot of stuff but most of said stuff I know only on surface level. I mostly listen to metal and electronic music, but I can occasionally be caught listening to some stupid pop or something.
Brave, caring, open, honest, respectful. Very worldly and open-minded, decently well-traveled. A good listener and sometimes a fun speaker with a lot of stories to tell. Not very emotionally intelligent but I compensate with my analytic brain; I have a history of successful treatment for depression (because shitty broke life); cold brain, hot temper; with a tendency to avoid contact with people sometimes (but if our interaction goes well, I will be in touch all the time). Moderately religious (Catholic), with a moderate interest in spiritual stuff in general. Demisexual (I obviously won't be able to support a kinky conversation). INTP, chaotic neutral.
I am completely open to an LDR and I know very well how to manage those. I value honesty and open communication first and foremost. I do have an expectation to get to know my partner in person, but unfortunately I won't be able to travel to see you -- weak passport, small salary, debts. So it would be pretty important for you to be at least somewhat travel-ready. I'm really sorry I can't visit you on my own, but I guarantee you will enjoy your stay (Montenegro is stunningly beautiful!). Also I would like to note that I am strictly monogamous and I have negative experience being around a polyamorous person, so please be single. In return, I'll make sure you feel accepted, understood, cared for and loved, overall I will try my best to be a great partner all around -- and I am very devoted if I care about a girl.
Please drop me a dm if I somehow managed to capture your interest. Please say a couple things about yourself. I'll share my pic and I expect yours in return, to avoid catfishing. You can be from anywhere, but please be a cis female aged 20-35. Hope you have a great week.
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