hello!

dealbreakers: poly (i'm monogamous), gambling addiction, kids (i don't want any), bad hygiene, cats (i'm allergic even if i LOVE them)

if that hasn't scared you away, then:

i'm a 31 yo cis femme woman about 5'5'' and normal BMI looking for someone who has the potential to be my life partner! though sapphic friendships are good, too :P would prefer someone relatively health-oriented or trying to get there and we can work on it together! (but admit i do love me a lil chub on a girl) i'm personally working on my own diet and exercise routine since my family has kidney, diabetes, and cholesterol problems and i want to avoid those esp as i'm getting older.

i'm open to LDR as long as we can put an end to it within a year or two. i am anchored to this area for the next 4-ish years so ideally someone who's okay to live in my area at least until mid-2028. i would be open to going somewhere else after.

i work a decent job so i wouldn't mind being with someone who is in between jobs or looking at a career change and can't contribute financially as long as you're a good cook or baker! :P jokes aside, i'm an introverted person so i don't think i would do well with someone who enjoys regular partying, clubbing or stuff like that. would love to cuddle and watch shows with someone or cook together or other homebody stuff lol but i don't mind going out weekly or so. very into mystery novels, crime dramas haha and also like playing games with friends and family.

i'm also decently kinky though it doesn't have to be all the time and every time. i can appreciate a nice and sweet vanilla love making sesh as much as a rough and kinky sesh. i'm definitely sub leaning switch with love for spanking and servicing my partner so disciplinarians/dommes to the front! :P ideally, you'll also let me tie you up once in a blue moon and tease you until you tell me i'm in trouble 🥺

i don't care if you're from the US, a native english speaker, or whatever, i can speak 3.5 languages and am always open to learning another, and i have a passport. admittedly, my time is a little more limited until 2028, though. i also don't care about femme or masc or goth or pink bows as i've dated and been attracted to the entire spectrum of lesbians.

looking for that woman to buy flowers and/or food for and surprise with anything that'll put a smile on her face :)

feel free to DM and/or comment if you find yourself interested and let's get to know each other!