Looking for someone on the same wavelength, ideally age range 33-40 living in Europe. I'd like to verify that we are both not serial killers and can get along well as friends first before anything more.

Native English speaker, hopefully more intelligent than the average koala, appreciate clean humor, spent some years living in the US and UK before moving to CH. Cis, femme-ish, monogamous and looking for same. My superpower is spotting typos, often involuntarily.

Not super into MBTI but if it helps any in forming some impression: I fit the description of an INFJ, though I'm on the fence for J/P.

I'm very introverted, in the sense that socializing takes a lot of energy and I need recharge time. Despite grumpiness I swear I do enjoy talking to humans. My mood kinda depends on how well I've slept and whether I'm hungry, but I'm getting better at sorting that out!

I grew up awkward but wouldn't call myself that anymore. Now I'm often unintentionally so friendly that men I chat with sometimes apparently feel the need to mention the existence of a partner 😆 so I try to tone it down. I tend to be drawn to somewhat gentle-mannered people with shy voices, it somehow makes me feel protective of them, but on the flip side I don't have a lot of patience for learned helplessness.

I'm actually fairly reserved; I don't share much personal particulars at the start of talking to someone, and you don't have to either. Just tell me enough to prove you're not a catfish :) Ideally I'd like to avoid an interview-style grilling! I've noticed that I find it easier to open up to someone of a similar personality.

Appearance-wise I'm small, BMI slightly < 20 and I'm trying to build up to being able to do a pushup, black shoulder-length hair, Chinese descent if that matters, but I'm not from China. My look is probably the opposite of edgy; people's parents generally seem to like me. Someone once asked if I was a Korean drama actress and gave me cake; I think that might have been a bit exaggerated though 😅

I don't like make-up nor heels, and find painted nails a bit icky, but in the summer I like wearing dresses. My queer friends say I don't look gay, at most bi - but I know I'm not bi. I did give it a shot, but, no. Unfortunately for me I'm not romantically or physically attracted to AMAB people and sometimes I feel ashamed about that because I wonder if that makes me a bad person :/ I'm sorry!

I like animals, trees, quiet mornings/evenings, and emotional intelligence. I have houseplants of varying sizes, enjoy healthy eating, and prefer buying organic. I don't like smoke of any kind, and used to drink but not anymore. Some of my favorite activities include neighborhood walks to look for kitties, trying to get their attention and failing, yoga, and meditation (gotta get over that crushing cat rejection somehow).

Posting here because the apps in Switzerland haven't turned up much recently. My ideal relationship wouldn't be LDR of course, I'd like to share a home with my future wife and maybe our fur child(ren, depending on ambition). I'd like to have dinner together after work and recharge doing our own thing companionably in affectionate not-necessarily-anything -- by which I mean, talking or silence are both totally alright! Nonverbal communication is equally or more important to me than words. But please be warned that I loathe the term "vibing" :)

Since I observe many posts here mention aspects of the following themes in some way, I'd like to be upfront that I'm not into gaming, anime, fanfiction, computers & technology, etc. and will likely not be suitable for someone who would want to talk to me about those things. I also don't want to date anyone who works in tech. I like science though.

Also, I'm still avoiding Corona (I'm healthy, thankfully, but don't fancy any risk of brain damage) and would like to connect with people of a similar persuasion.