I posted here a month or two ago, I was very blessed to chat to some very lovely people, but unfortunately no one that I really clicked with.

So with that being said, I thought I would try here one more time before completely admitting defeat and resigning myself to the life the universe seems to have set out for me. Although becoming a recluse and adopting 30 cats sounds fun, I imagine it will get pretty lonely, so I’m really just trying to find my special person.

About me, I’m 31, 5“6, I wouldn’t describe myself as femme or masc, I’m not huge on labels, but I guess I’m somewhere in between. I’m not one for stereotypes either but my friend pointed out that I can contour the heck out of a face, cook an amazing meal, fix your car and lay paving slabs in the garden, I don’t know why she felt the need to point this out, but make of it what you will!

Appearance wise, I’m a little bit pudgy at the moment, I’ve lost about 5 stone (70lbs for our American friends) and have another couple to go to be happy. I have naturally brown hair currently dyed reddish brown, blue eyes.

Personality wise, it’s the typical shy until you get to know me, once you do get to know me I’m a bit dorky, a bit labradory and just stoked to be alive and around people I like. I appreciate the opportunity to do new and wonderful things, I have many many interests that I won’t bore you with here.

Since being on my own again, I try to get out as much as I can, but the ultimate goal is to have someone to come home to, cuddle and mutually moan about how everybody sucks but us.

The person I’m looking for is ideally closeish to my age, mainly so you understand the cheesy pop culture references I make, but otherwise I’m pretty flexible, for me it’s just important we click and get along, we don’t discriminate! (No judgement but if you do discriminate and are transphobic, homophobic, racist or otherwise bigoted then it’s probably not worth messaging because I’m not too sure we’d get along, I do my best to love and accept everyone)

I’m not really sure what more to say, I have so much to say, but don’t want to inflict a wall of text on you.

I’m in the South/South West of the UK, I don’t mind where you are geographically, but realistically if you’re in Madagascar Mongolia or Mauritius it might be a bit hard logistically.

Also again, no judgement, but if you’re a couple looking for a third or looking for casual hookups, respectfully please don’t message, you do you, but that’s not really my scene.

Tell me what you’re passionate about at the moment or your favourite food or something, idk I’m not very good at this!

Look forward to hearing from you!